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    I found out that she's "in a relationship" with some guy on her team, but when we've spent time together she's never mentioned him... in fact she's never mentioned him at all and I've never seen him with her.

    Is this just a "banter relationship" or could she actually be in one and doesn't feel the need to tell me?

    I mean we've flirted and I'm pretty sure she knows I like her?
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    Ask her and try and detect her facial expressions to see if she is lying or not
    But you may be the side guy not her main guy

    What really baffles me in general is why would anyone lead someone on if they are already in a relationship
    Surely it makes more sense to end the current relatioship and start a new one then to be in two at the same time
    (guess they probs want to keep both people)
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    What's a banter relationship? You mean something light and playful?
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    What's a banter relationship? You mean something light and playful?
    OK, so I think she's with someone - or at least that's what her FB says. But I've 1) never seen her with him and 2) she has never mentioned a "boyfriend".

    I'm thinking that maybe it's one of those between-friends kind of jokes or whatever.... but maybe that's just me reasoning.
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    Hard to say without knowing her. Unless you are with her 24/7 then how do you know?

    Is she doing things with you she shouldnt and wuld make you mad if you were he bf? is she unhappy?

    The bf coild be ldr or mature and they are relaxed, so able to see each other less often or it could be a fantasy. Ask her, what the score is.
 
 
 
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