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    so until summer (when i did NCS) i didnt really have any male friends as i had always been at a girls school, so when on NCS i unknowingly began flirting and boys started coming to me- however this is as the wanted head. I then started getting boys asking me to have sex with them who id only met for one day... there was one time i had been speaking to the guy for a few weeks and we had sex, he then told all his friends- who i then met as i moved to that school, ever since i have realised that i talk to more boys than girls on my phone, and boys are still only talking to me for sexual reasons. I really just want to focus on school and have fun- nothing sexual, how can i change the way that people look at me as a slut...
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    so until summer (when i did NCS) i didnt really have any male friends as i had always been at a girls school, so when on NCS i unknowingly began flirting and boys started coming to me- however this is as the wanted head. I then started getting boys asking me to have sex with them who id only met for one day... there was one time i had been speaking to the guy for a few weeks and we had sex, he then told all his friends- who i then met as i moved to that school, ever since i have realised that i talk to more boys than girls on my phone, and boys are still only talking to me for sexual reasons. I really just want to focus on school and have fun- nothing sexual, how can i change the way that people look at me as a slut...
    Hahaha you came to the right place kiddo - I'm an expert on this stuff. Actions speak louder than words; telling the guys to :dolphin::dolphin::dolphin::dolphin: off and knuckling down on your work is a very loud action.
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    yeah but dont change how people feel about me--- i still lost all my girl friends from my old school, and the boy im close to doesnt want to date me but likes us flirting
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    yeah but dont change how people feel about me
    Yes you do, you said you didnt want them to see you as a slut...


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    i still lost all my girl friends from my old school, and the boy im close to doesnt want to date me but likes us flirting
    i am sure you'll find better friend along the way.
    hanging around and flirting isn't going to get you any where, unless you don't mind being treated like a flirting toy then keep on being friends with this guy. you should find a guy who actually cares bout your well being and respects you as a friend. if he can't understand that you want to change, he can leave.

    Your studies are more important than all of this ****
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    [QUOTE=i am sure you'll find better friend along the way.
    hanging around and flirting isn't going to get you any where, unless you don't mind being treated like a flirting toy then keep on being friends with this guy. you should find a guy who actually cares bout your well being and respects you as a friend. if he can't understand that you want to change, he can leave.

    Your studies are more important than all of this ****[/QUOTE]

    he does care about me- when ive been through rough times hes always been there for me, even when i pushed him away, i trust him but i just dont want to flirt if it isnt going anywhere
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    he does care about me- when ive been through rough times hes always been there for me, even when i pushed him away, i trust him but i just dont want to flirt if it isnt going anywhere
    I see, i guess you should talk it out with him then
 
 
 
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