First Kiss

Hi,
The thing is, im a 17 year old boy and have just fallen in love with a girl. The next time we meet we will probably kiss, but the thing is i have never kissed a girl before, and im sooo nervous! what do i do? and how do u kiss a girl well?

Reply 1

Ozy

7

Well. I'm a crap kisser, I've been told by 5 girls and 1 lad. Practice on an orange or something. Also search google for kissing tips. :wink:

Reply 2

randomgirl

14

It should just come naturally, it did for me.
Try not to worry about it too much, just start with soft closed-mouth kisses and go from there.

Good luck.

Reply 3

shewantstobeme

10

Before we went out two of my friends kissed by boyfriend and told me he was a terrible kisser, and I think he's amazing.

Everyone kisses in different ways, hence why people enjoy different kissing styles.

Do what comes naturally, though if she doesn't open her mouth very much, don't open yours much either, of she'll think you're like a washing machine... and vice versa :smile:

You can't go wrong. Good luck!

Reply 4

cuddy

3

it comes naturally, just dont shove your tongue down her throat!

Reply 5

Norman Shilcago

I thought i'd let you know that i am in a simular predicament. I'm 17 and have never kissed anyone but unlike you my prospect of kissing a girl is highly unlikely for the next couple of years. Not for any reason in particular, i'm just a little socialy awkward and find it hard to talk to girls without sounding like a geek. Take my advice and dont worry about it, treasure the moment and the build up, you only get one first kiss.

Reply 6

plyr1688

relax, thats the only word i can say

Reply 7

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3

Oh my god, its bad enough people building up losing their virginity, but your first kiss? Just kiss someone for christs' sake, its not worth waiting for.

Reply 8

Empyreal Rhapsody

8

Turn your head slightly, lean in, gently brush your hand against her hair, with the other hand on her hip, arm or back; begin to kiss her normally (not open-mouthed), pull back slightly, gaze into her eyes (really gaze -- it's as if you're actually looking through her), pause for a moment, and try to understand her just by looking into her eyes -- try to feel everything that she's feeling, and then, when the moment feels right, lean in again, with the tip of your nose brushing against hers, and engage in a kiss. Give her a little squeeze (not like a bear hug! :P ) so that she knows that she makes you feel comfortable and at-peace, and when the kiss is finished, pull away slowly, and as you do so, tenderly kiss her bottom lip. As the kiss ends, fall into her eyes again -- do it so deeply that it looks as though you're lost -- and make her feel that it pains you for the kiss to end. But don't overdo it -- you have to know when to finish the kiss, but she must be aware that you would be have been happy to continue kissing.

Dude, totally disregard everything I wrote, and just enjoy yourself, and enjoy a tender moment with a girl that makes you smile every time you close your eyes when you feel lonely or afraid.

Reply 9

onthejubileeline

Just relax, and don't over-use the tongue, or open your mouth too much. Just be gentle, maybe go for a closed-mouth one first off so you get used to it. You'll be fine, seriously, I'm sure your first kiss will be awesome! x

Reply 10

person 34

9

Remember to wear lots of vaseline so your lips are very shiney and attractive :wink:

. Then lean in and stick your lips out in a cats bum manner. Kiss her really, really hard (to show you care). Then as your mouths open, stick your tongue around and really flex those muscles and make it spin - the faster the better! While, doing all this remmeber, to have BOTH hands on her bum and squeeze lots, because girls always like guys to be a bit naughty. Then when you've pulled away, grin stupidly and tweak her nose.

Reply 11

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3

34 person

Remember to wear lots of vaseline so your lips are very shiney and attractive :wink:

. Then lean in and stick your lips out in a cats bum manner. Kiss her really, really hard (to show you care). Then as your mouths open, stick your tongue around and really flex those muscles and make it spin - the faster the better! While, doing all this remmeber, to have BOTH hands on her bum and squeeze lots, because girls always like guys to be a bit naughty. Then when you've pulled away, grin stupidly and tweak her nose.

You forgot the obligatory 'HONK!' on her boobs as you turn away to leave.

Reply 12

Empyreal Rhapsody

8

34 person

Remember to wear lots of vaseline so your lips are very shiney and attractive :wink:

. Then lean in and stick your lips out in a cats bum manner. Kiss her really, really hard (to show you care). Then as your mouths open, stick your tongue around and really flex those muscles and make it spin - the faster the better! While, doing all this remmeber, to have BOTH hands on her bum and squeeze lots, because girls always like guys to be a bit naughty. Then when you've pulled away, grin stupidly and tweak her nose.

This brings back horrific memories of a girl who actually kissed like this :frown:

Reply 13

person 34

9

3232

You forgot the obligatory 'HONK!' on her boobs as you turn away to leave.

Oh yeah. Very important - makes her realise you really like her, and are not just there for her bottom.

Reply 14

person 34

9

Empyreal Rhapsody

This brings back horrific memories of a girl who actually kissed like this :frown:

But...that's how I've been kissed. I really like it, how is it horrific :confused:

Anyway, I'm sorry didn't mean to hurt you!

Reply 15

Paperfolders57

Wildebeest

I have no experience in this, but why not begin slowly, as in kissing on the cheek first?

Yeah is really good start , but think l'd do the same to begin with!

Reply 16

Paperfolders57

34 person

Remember to wear lots of vaseline so your lips are very shiney and attractive :wink:

. Then lean in and stick your lips out in a cats bum manner. Kiss her really, really hard (to show you care). Then as your mouths open, stick your tongue around and really flex those muscles and make it spin - the faster the better! While, doing all this remmeber, to have BOTH hands on her bum and squeeze lots, because girls always like guys to be a bit naughty. Then when you've pulled away, grin stupidly and tweak her nose.

I like this full on from the start,wells best to do this then atleast either goes one of two ways,she get well into you likes it or she punches you in the which case you've crashed and burned still can only need to pick youself up for another round! :smile:

Reply 17

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3

Paperfolders57

I like this full on from the start,wells best to do this then atleast either goes one of two ways,she get well into you likes it or she punches you in the which case you've crashed and burned still can only need to pick youself up for another round! :smile:

I have a feeling that the meaning of life is for mankind to strive until one day, with a little bit of luck and a lot of hard work, someone may be able to understand what you say.

Oh and go in for your first kiss with someone and kiss them on the cheek and they'll probably think that you've mistaken them for your granny or are, in fact, 7 years old.

Reply 18

Tufts

17

Okay start by softly puckering your lips and pressing them against hers. Put your arms around her and stroke her hair whilst you are kissing. After a while if she is not tense, gently slip your tounge between her lips and test her reaction. If she becomes tense then withdraw your tounge and do not insert it again during this session. Try embracing her after the kiss and nuzzling her neck. Plant soft kisses down her neck and blow softly into her ear.

Well that gets me going anyway :proud:

Reply 19

King Hippo

9

Tufts

Okay start by softly puckering your lips and pressing them against hers. Put your arms around her and stroke her hair whilst you are kissing. After a while if she is not tense, gently slip your tounge between her lips and test her reaction. If she becomes tense then withdraw your tounge and do not insert it again during this session. Try embracing her after the kiss and nuzzling her neck. Plant soft kisses down her neck and blow softly into her ear.

Well that gets me going anyway :proud:

Sounds good to me. :yy:

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