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seeing the ex

going to a bbq on sunday, not many of us will be there, but my cheating ex bf will be. i don't really know the best way to play it, any tips?

Reply 1

mudblood

If I were in your position I'd be civil but I wouldn't go out of my way to talk to him unless I'd completely forgiven him and we'd put it behind us. If you're still at an awkward stage, I'd see what he has to say to you. :smile:

If he seems genuinely interested in how you're doing, go with it.

Reply 2

turkish_delight

i just have a bad feeling im going to end up chucking a drink over him or something, and i dont want to do that!!!

Reply 3

mudblood

I can just see you losing control. :biggrin:

If he's pleasant to you it hopefully won't become a problem. I sometimes see people from my past and expect to react in a negative way and end up forgetting the arguments we had before.

Reply 4

theredsox

Don't forget to make an effort so he's sorry about what he's lost :p:

Reply 5

turkish_delight

o god i dont know, maybe i shouldnt go

Reply 6

mudblood

turkish_delight

o god i dont know, maybe i shouldnt go

It might be a good idea for you to take a friend to hold you back if you get upset.

Reply 7

turkish_delight

well thats just the thing, everyone there are supposed to be my friends, but you've got the cheating ex,and the bitch from my old school that gave him my new number for him to prank me on.

Reply 8

turkish_delight

but there will be loads of good friends there aswel

Reply 9

Mrs_F

Don't you dare let him stop you going!

As redsox said, you have got to really dress lovely, as stunning as possible without making it obvious, to let him know what he has lost.

Just go, be yourself, be civil, and most of all enjoy yourself!

Reply 10

sunburnt_note

Ouch, this is a real toughy, I was in a similar position with my ex, cept I had to see him all the time...

The thing is, you'd be so much better off not going, but then people may well talk, and you'll just spend all evening being miserable about not going :frown:

So, I'd say go, but as previous posters have suggested, take along a good friend to look after you if you do get upset. Make an effort, look fantastic, be VERY cool with him and if he tries to talk to you, act disinterested. It'll not only make him really confused (sounds like a cocky git - he won't be able to understand why you don't like him lol), but it'll also give you the upper hand.

Hope it all works out. A bit of flirting with other guys wouldn't go amiss (but if you're upset, don't lol, the outcome will just not be good!).

xxx

Reply 11

hell_o

Yep definitely agree with the others, make sure you look good, because then you'll feel good and you'll show him what he's thrown away, so to speak. Also, even if inside you feel like crying/hitting him/screaming etc, don't, because he'll just think you're pathetic and besides you know you're better than that and that he is really not worth it. You don't want him to know that what he did still affects you. God men are ******** (with exceptions of course). Good luck and try and enjoy yourself!

Reply 12

randomgirl

Don't talk to him unless he speaks to you? Just don't approach him first, he'll feel rejected :tongue:

and others have said- make sure you're looking drop dead gorgeous!

Reply 13

turkish_delight

thanks guys!
well its going to be hot tomorrow so at least i can show off the tan!!

Reply 14

turkishprincess

i know this was ages ago but how did it go in the end?

i'm in pretty much the same situation right now, the party is tonight and reading this has really helped :smile:

xxx