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    Ive been talking to a guy online for about 5months now things were going great but yesterday things got a bit serious, for the past week or so he’s been telling me he wants to be marry me ive told the same thing



    we met on a marriage site and he says I might be the right match for him anyway the site he was signed up for is only able to be used once payed for ive not been active much on it anyway last night I logged in and I see his account was active even though its expired so I asked him about how he was still on there if I was his “perfect match”




    he said his account was expired and he didn’t talk to others on there, I didn’t believe him so he said I could check for myself and he’ll give me his login details anyway he did and he was right he had messages sent to him but wasn’t able to reply…




    anyway I have his email so I tried logging in with the same password he had given me and it worked and I was in for a shock…










    he had signed up for like 6 other dating sites and even a couple of dirty one night stand kind of sites so I went onto these sites logged into his account and hed not been active on there like he had messages sent to him but he hadn’t replied to any





    anyway I logged into his insta too and there I see him following loads of girls liking there images ect I just feel I might get played, do you think hes lying to me about me being the one he wants I mean we’ve been talking for 5months and some of these sites hes signed up for were recent not too recent but quite, what shall I do?
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    You obviously didn't trust him in the first place. You're both as bad as each other to be honest. Sorry.
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    I love big paragraph spaces, me.

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    we met on a marriage site
    Clearly neither of you are marriage material.
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    Well it doesn't sound like he has or was going to be unfaithful to you. It seems that he had accounts on dating sites but had stopped using them because he wanted to be with you. Liking girls' Instagram pictures probably doesn't mean anything. But clearly you don't trust him to go through his emails and log onto his old dating profiles without his knowledge.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ive been talking to a guy online for about 5months now things were going great but yesterday things got a bit serious, for the past week or so he’s been telling me he wants to be marry me ive told the same thing

    we met on a marriage site and he says I might be the right match for him anyway the site he was signed up for is only able to be used once payed for ive not been active much on it anyway last night I logged in and I see his account was active even though its expired so I asked him about how he was still on there if I was his “perfect match”

    he said his account was expired and he didn’t talk to others on there, I didn’t believe him so he said I could check for myself and he’ll give me his login details anyway he did and he was right he had messages sent to him but wasn’t able to reply…

    anyway I have his email so I tried logging in with the same password he had given me and it worked and I was in for a shock…

    he had signed up for like 6 other dating sites and even a couple of dirty one night stand kind of sites so I went onto these sites logged into his account and hed not been active on there like he had messages sent to him but he hadn’t replied to any

    anyway I logged into his insta too and there I see him following loads of girls liking there images ect I just feel I might get played, do you think hes lying to me about me being the one he wants I mean we’ve been talking for 5months and some of these sites hes signed up for were recent not too recent but quite, what shall I do?
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    anon managed to get password of guy she wants to marry, finds out he using loads of other dating sites aswell...
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    You should tell him that he's dodged a massive bullet with you.
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    i love the gaps in the paragraphs, really adds suspense that was lacking
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    Have you guys even met? Or just talked online.

    If you guys haven't even met, you've become a crazy stalker at a very early stage...
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    Accessing someone else's account without their consent. (the other accounts)

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    You should tell him that he's dodged a massive bullet with you.
    wat u mean
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    he had signed up for like 6 other dating sites and even a couple of dirty one night stand kind of sites so I went onto these sites logged into his account and hed not been active on there like he had messages sent to him but he hadn’t replied to any

    anyway I logged into his insta too and there I see him following loads of girls liking there images ect I just feel I might get played, do you think hes lying to me about me being the one he wants I mean we’ve been talking for 5months and some of these sites hes signed up for were recent not too recent but quite, what shall I do?
    This last part says it all sweetie... I'd trust your judgement and end it fast
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    People who are signed on to all these sites come with more headaches and lies. You're better off with finding someone who arent desperate losers and start meeting ppl in real life, who aren't signed on to those sites
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    Rather alarming there is a lack of trust already, if he isn't very active on those dating sites no more, the chances are he actually wanted to see where things go with you.
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    you want to marry a man you have only known for 5 months and met online? :lol:
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    Tell him to increase his security.
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    Send me his login details so I can check for myself.
 
 
 
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