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i miss my ex

he emailed me a few days ago and he was mailing me all evening last night and now i miss him!!

i don't understand what happend with us though and he is still talking to me unlike when we broke up 2 years ago!! we only broke up this time around about a month ago!! i really miss him!!

he was the only person who i truley cared about and everything he said about my mates were right i ended up finding that out for myself as they messed me around, i suggested going out for a drink he seemed positive but i stated just as mates!!

god im being so stupid aren't i, i need to be mates with him and forget all the other crap!!!

do i sound like a mad woman

Reply 1

Anonymous
he emailed me a few days ago and he was mailing me all evening last night and now i miss him!!

i don't understand what happend with us though and he is still talking to me unlike when we broke up 2 years ago!! we only broke up this time around about a month ago!! i really miss him!!

he was the only person who i truley cared about and everything he said about my mates were right i ended up finding that out for myself as they messed me around, i suggested going out for a drink he seemed positive but i stated just as mates!!

god im being so stupid aren't i, i need to be mates with him and forget all the other crap!!!

do i sound like a mad woman

No....maybe you should get back together with him? :confused:

Reply 2

You're not mad at all, it's perfectly natural and normal to miss someone who was such a major part of your life. Especially if you're talking to him, because it means you'll be thinking about him a lot. I still miss my ex sometimes, and we broke up in September. Do you want to get back together or do you just miss him being around?

Reply 3

y did u break up?

Reply 4

Of course you will miss him - it's just a recent breakup.
You could miss him for the rest of your life - even if you do fall in love with someone else.

I met up with my ex (5 years ago now) "just as friends" and we ended up having sex. It could never have been "just as friends" there were far too many feelings between us.

Remember, what is meant to be will be.

Reply 5

y did u break up?


we both had issues with other things like families and friends and work and we just drifted apart he told me he didn;t feel the same and i said ioldn't be with him anymore coz he was hurting me by messing around i know it wasn't his fault!

i do want to get back with him!! but i know he won't want me back!! ive been thinking about him for the last couple of days and im really confused!!

he said if he didn't want to speck to me he wouldn't email me back!!

im so stupid

Reply 6

In my experienecem getting back with an Ex isn't a good move.

Really isn't.

Reply 7

Speck? Haha.

And when you breakup...you lose something. You don't get it back because once you decide to break up its gone. You can meet your ex but you will just end up having sex and nothing more.

Reply 8

he was my ex from two years ago and we then went out for 6 months or so i reckon he was scared of commitment or feelings coz we had no reason to break up!!

the first time there was a reason he had a job where he was away for weeks at a time i couldn't cope with it!!

im just going to forget about it i reckon and wait for the next one to make it euqally as miserable so i can come back on here and prob post the same as this but in a year or two lol

nah not really i need to get over it just move on thats whayt i say to all my mates theres plenty more out there! i should take my own advise