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    this guy i like at uni (i'm sure he knows) we sometimes smile at each other and he always tries to get my attention when he is around but that is as far as he goes. WHY WON'T HE SPEAK TO ME? i'm so confused
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    Because he's probably terrified to iniate a conversation with you. If you like him that much then maybe you should try talking to him first?
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    this guy i like at uni (i'm sure he knows) we sometimes smile at each other and he always tries to get my attention when he is around but that is as far as he goes. WHY WON'T HE SPEAK TO ME? i'm so confused
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    Probably just shy
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    this guy i like at uni (i'm sure he knows) we sometimes smile at each other and he always tries to get my attention when he is around but that is as far as he goes. WHY WON'T HE SPEAK TO ME? i'm so confused
    Do you like him? Or do you think he likes you?
    Does he talk to other people when you're near him? or does he glue his mouth near you?
    I think he really likes you and is just shy to talk to you maybe because he thinks you might dislike him?
    When it's just you and him (lets say in corridor) talk to him, I'm 99% sure he will talk to you! Good luck!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    this guy i like at uni (i'm sure he knows) we sometimes smile at each other and he always tries to get my attention when he is around but that is as far as he goes. WHY WON'T HE SPEAK TO ME? i'm so confused
    Go talk to him!! Hes probably more into you!
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    (Original post by YungRilt)
    Do you like him? Or do you think he likes you?
    Does he talk to other people when you're near him? or does he glue his mouth near you?
    I think he really likes you and is just shy to talk to you maybe because he thinks you might dislike him?
    When it's just you and him (lets say in corridor) talk to him, I'm 99% sure he will talk to you! Good luck!
    i like him but i'm unsure if he likes me, i catch him staring at me sometimes and he is quite loud, he actually speaks to a lot of people so this is why i'm confused. he's quite intimidating to approach, i'm too shy to speak to him lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    i like him but i'm unsure if he likes me, i catch him staring at me sometimes and he is quite loud, he actually speaks to a lot of people so this is why i'm confused. he's quite intimidating to approach, i'm too shy to speak to him lol
    He definitely 100% likes you and you like him! If you see him by himself just say "Hi (his name)" "(let him respond)" "Are you busy right now? I need help with this question/essay"
    If he says he is busy ask him for his number (anyone would want to give their number to their crush)
    ALSO there is no need to be intimidated HE is clearly shy and likes you, he is not going to be rude. He probably wants to talk to you aswell but doesn't have to courage to neither do you. Please go talk to him. This SAME thing happened to me recently, but I was in the boys position and I was too scared/shy to talk her because she was really fit (probably out of my league), Now we are together!
    MAKE SURE ITS JUST HIM AND YOU (none of his or your friends and nobody that will make it awkward)
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    two insecure people lol

    wont work
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    One of you has got to take the lead, if you really like him that much then you need to make the effort to speak to him, otherwise you will never know what will happen.
 
 
 
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