I'm 16, I know quite young, and really think that I am ready to have sex, plainly just because I really want to have it. I've just come out of a realitionship so I'm not planning on getting into a new one too soon, but I still really want to have sex. I am worried that If I do get a boyfriend that I will be so nervous about doing it for the first time with him that I won't enjoy it as much, so is it really that bad to lose it with someone that I quite like but know that it won't lead anywhere else other than just sex?