Should I assume hes not interested?

I really like this guy and in short, we got together on friday night which im really pleased about. He is the brother of some1 i know, and have since been round there etc but nothings been said, we have basically avoided the issue completely. He has my number, is on facebook but hasnt contacted me.

Ive basically taken this as a sure sign that hes not actually interested (we were both quite drunk at the time). But im wondering if im right? I want to say something but I really think that if there was any chance he would have. What do you think?!

Reply 1

Talya

Maybe you can ask him out? Then you would know for sure? My bf took a while to pluck up the courage to ask me out after he had my number but seeing as you already know the guy I guess it is different.

Reply 2

dh00001

ask and find out? if hes not doing anything youve got to

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

oooh youre both right. im scared tho lol! I dont know him massively well but its awkward with him being my friends bro. Man i wish i was telepathic!

Reply 4

Flash6289

Don't assume anything. Just ask him and then you'll know for sure. "What's the worst that could happen?" lol.

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

I'm in a similar situation. I met a guy at a party, we kissed, then the next week we went on a date. I haven't heard anything from him in over a week now, despite having called him. So I guess he's not interested :frown: