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Does he like me?
Just been out with a guy and i really like him but not sure if he feels the same.. he bought me a few drinks and offered to drop me home (parents didn't know where i was so had to turn him down and get the train back) and then asked me to text him to let him know i was home safely. I did and he replied 'I had a good time tonight, home now, hope to see you soon'
Not quite sure what to make of that...anyone?
Not quite sure what to make of that...anyone?
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Reply 2
He's either just being chivalrous or he likes you (or both of course). Is he normally a chivalrous kinda guy?
Reply 5
Sounds like he does! He also sounds really polite- chivarly is NOT dead! I haven't met a massive amount of really polite guys in my time here, so I think he's a keeper. And even if he doesn't feel the same way, which by the sounds of things, I doubt, he'd make a good guy friend. All the best.
And even if he doesn't feel the same way, which by the sounds of things, I doubt, he'd make a good guy friend. All the best.Reply 6
Anonymous
Just been out with a guy and i really like him but not sure if he feels the same.. he bought me a few drinks and offered to drop me home (parents didn't know where i was so had to turn him down and get the train back) and then asked me to text him to let him know i was home safely. I did and he replied 'I had a good time tonight, home now, hope to see you soon'
Not quite sure what to make of that...anyone?
Not quite sure what to make of that...anyone?
as a guy: I'd say thats a yes....but a yes where he's trying not to sound too pushy!
Reply 7
I would just say be careful lassy. Because he could just be a really nice guy ^^
I mean seriously I do that with people I've just met becuase I feel tis the foundations of a good friendship ^^
I mean seriously I do that with people I've just met becuase I feel tis the foundations of a good friendship ^^
teenageclay
I would just say be careful lassy. Because he could just be a really nice guy ^^
I mean seriously I do that with people I've just met becuase I feel tis the foundations of a good friendship ^^
I mean seriously I do that with people I've just met becuase I feel tis the foundations of a good friendship ^^
^ Nice chap! Not many of my guy mates would care how a girl got home!
It sounds like he likes you, in my opinion. Obviously he could just be a gentleman who's been brought up to respect and look after ladies, but if he wanted to know you were home safe and texted you that back it sounds like he's got positive feelings towards you. Go out with him a few more times and see what happens!
Reply 10
Sorry for the original anon, had the box ticked for some reason, anyway thanks for your replies... this was the first time i've seen him in ages because met at a party last year and kept in contact.. hopefully it will work out but something tells me he's just polite instead of actually lieking me, plus he's text saying 'hope to see you soon' was a bit vague. hmm.
Reply 11
Despite what I said it is totally possible like abc101 said. I mean I'm not trying to blown me own wind instrument here, but, I've noticed most of my mates are nothing like me and have totally different beliefs in how to treat woman and what they are in our minds.
I dunno cba to go into but it's just some people despite being my friends annoy me with their man whorishness
I dunno cba to go into but it's just some people despite being my friends annoy me with their man whorishness
Reply 12
Wildebeest
Yellowmarshmellow - (looks at spoiler) - Royal Holloway? Why don't you whisk him off there for a trip, it's about the closest you can get to a French chateau! 
Haha nice idea, i'll definately be doing that then
Reply 13
hmm! Well he certainly like you as a friend at least! the fact that he was worried about you proves that! And that he asked you to text him and said he had a good time...
I think he does like you...maybe test the waters a little, flirt a bit and see the reaction? then judging on his reaction you will be able to decide better whether he likes you! and if he doesn't then you can just say it was siome harmless mucking about etc...
Good luck! have some confidence and I really hope it works out for you!
take care and keep us udated!
I think he does like you...maybe test the waters a little, flirt a bit and see the reaction? then judging on his reaction you will be able to decide better whether he likes you! and if he doesn't then you can just say it was siome harmless mucking about etc...
Good luck! have some confidence and I really hope it works out for you!
take care and keep us udated!
Reply 14
Wildebeest
Hehe... but first, a nice text message tomorrow morning of the "How are things for you?" type to keep things going. I seriously get the idea he is interested. 
Are you sure i should text? I was thinking maybe let him contact me. But then what if he never does.
Woe betide me
Reply 15
dying-flower
hmm! Well he certainly like you as a friend at least! the fact that he was worried about you proves that! And that he asked you to text him and said he had a good time...
I think he does like you...maybe test the waters a little, flirt a bit and see the reaction? then judging on his reaction you will be able to decide better whether he likes you! and if he doesn't then you can just say it was siome harmless mucking about etc...
Good luck! have some confidence and I really hope it works out for you!
take care and keep us udated!
I think he does like you...maybe test the waters a little, flirt a bit and see the reaction? then judging on his reaction you will be able to decide better whether he likes you! and if he doesn't then you can just say it was siome harmless mucking about etc...
Good luck! have some confidence and I really hope it works out for you!
take care and keep us udated!
Thank youu
I'll update you if he decides to ever contact me again hehe Reply 16
Yellowmarshmellow
Are you sure i should text? I was thinking maybe let him contact me. But then what if he never does.
Woe betide me
Woe betide me
well I understand that you don't want to seem to keen, so maybe leave it a little while? but not long or he'll think that you arn't intrested!
Reply 17
dying-flower
well I understand that you don't want to seem to keen, so maybe leave it a little while? but not long or he'll think that you arn't intrested!
How long do you think i should? excuse the stupid questions, it's just past relationships have been a bit crappy and if this is going to turn into anything i don't want to muck it up
Reply 18
Wildebeest
Don't worry, I've never had a relationship in my life, so I know exactly what I'm talking about! It's only a text message, so I would send one tomorrow - you don't have to tell him about these feelings, just keep it friendly for a while and show a continued interest. Perhaps you could make a simple 'it was great to see you' comment at the end and see what that provokes.
Don't let past relationships get in the way either - put them behind you and I'm sure you won't 'muck it up'!
It's only a text message, so I would send one tomorrow - you don't have to tell him about these feelings, just keep it friendly for a while and show a continued interest. Perhaps you could make a simple 'it was great to see you' comment at the end and see what that provokes.Don't let past relationships get in the way either - put them behind you and I'm sure you won't 'muck it up'!
likewise! I can advice byut i can't do relationships myself lmao!
Yeah you can text him as a freind. some of the best relationships ( I have observed) are born out of friend ship!
Reply 19
Why so un-confident, Yellowmarhsmellow? It makes me feel sad to live in a society where people lack such self-belief. It's so obvious that he is verily into you that I have to ask myself why you even bothered to make this thread.
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