Feeling a bit left out

Hey there, just a quick post really. I'm in my second year of Uni, have good friends and a good social life particulary this year. I'm just worried about the next.

At the moment there's 5 of us in the house. Three of them are leaving to go abroad - including one of my best mates. The remaining two (me and my other best mate) are moving into another house with two other people. I just feel a bit left out because in the new house (the 4 of us) the other three all do football together, and they've just bought tickets to Glastonbury festival which put the icing on the cake really. I suppose they didn't intentionally leave me out. They did ask me to go, I just couldn't go because of the money. I'm just worried this is going to run into next year, being left out. It's my biggest worry and I want my third year to be as enjoyable as possible. Any tips?

Reply 1

40550

Because you can't go to Glasto, doesn't mean you can't get involved with them at other times. Chatting to them, nights out, stuff like that. You're other option is looking for mates outside of that group.

Reply 2

herecomestrouble

I think the fact that they asked you to go etc. shows that they dont intentionally want to leave you out so it doesnt seem to me that there will be any major problems... maybe you could organise something for all 4 of you to do together another time; not necessarily expensive but even just cooking a meal and all eating together or something?

Don't stress too much - i'm sure they wont leave you out!

:hugs: