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uncertainty...advice needed

hey! recently ive met this guy, we both like each other and we kissed a coupla times...been on a date n stuff. there was definately a spark when we first met and we flirted with each other for ages lol. now we're kinda together and the problem is that sometimes i just have no idea what to say to him, conversation wise. i dont want there to be awkward silences but i really just have no idea what to talk about. we havent known each other long so i spose we're still getting to know each other, but i dont want him to think im boring or something and go off me! anyone got any advice? i know the problem is a bit of an odd one, sorry about that. like for example, at the moment i really wanna txt him, just to say hey, ask how he is and stuff...but again i dont want it to turn awkward if we run out of things to say.
im a bit worried about it. any advice would be really appreciated! thanks!

Reply 1

PatchTheCatch

Just chat to him dear ^^
I'm sure if he really likes you and ain't just saying it then he won't mind. I mean are you sure he feels these awkward silences? Maybe you just think he does. Any signs that these silences are awkward.
That could SO be a tongue twister.
So aye just chat to him, talk about stuff you don't know about him with him. Movies, telly etc just make some nice small talk. Leave proper discussions for in person stuff.
Hope I've helped yee

Reply 2

ßlαcksωαn

This your first relationship?
You need to stop over thinking things, just talk to him like a friend. You don't need to think so hard about where the convo will end up! just let it flow.