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Wanting one person badly
Is it abnormal to see one person and want them so badly? There are plenty of other girls I come across, who I could make the effort with, but what if somebody just captivates you, has such intensity that you're intoxicated by them? How do I find the guts to try and have a go with this girl even though I have no contact with her? ( I saw her acting in a play).
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Reply 1
Any chance you'll see her again?
Reply 2
Well that's the point. Two times only in my life has somebody inspired gut wrenching, heart wrenching longing in me. Both times they've been people I met in situations where I couldn't really get contact with them anyhow. I'd have to make a very artifical, stalkerish approach to get to know her. And she is indescribably enigmatic and beautiful. Like nothing I've seen. I also wonder how much it matters that she looks physically more prominent than me, despite my height--des it matter if it lookas as though she could 'have me for breakfast'?
Reply 3
So you think she's out of your league?
If you are able to see her again, try and get talking to her! She may look good, but she might not be the personality you've imagined.
If you aren't going to see her again, that's annoying. It's happened to me before, I've seen someone who is really attractive but I've just not been able to speak to him, or not had the courage.
If you are able to see her again, try and get talking to her! She may look good, but she might not be the personality you've imagined.
If you aren't going to see her again, that's annoying. It's happened to me before, I've seen someone who is really attractive but I've just not been able to speak to him, or not had the courage.
Reply 4
You do realise that you have fallen for the idea of what she might be, as opposed to actually her?
While there is nothing wrong with that, it means that she might really be nothing like you have envisaged.
While there is nothing wrong with that, it means that she might really be nothing like you have envisaged.
Reply 5
She's in a film now. I don't want to do myself down but not out of my league intellectually, but physically somehow yes. Although maybe that doesn't matter to some people as much as all that, who knows. But as soon as one reveals keeness, one is in trouble, agreed? That's my problem.
Reply 6
LennonMcCartney
You do realise that you have fallen for the idea of what she might be, as opposed to actually her?
While there is nothing wrong with that, it means that she might really be nothing like you have envisaged.
While there is nothing wrong with that, it means that she might really be nothing like you have envisaged.
Well call me shallow, but I actually think physical, primal attraction is every bit as worthwhile and exicitng as mental/intelllectual interest in a person.
Reply 7
I just want an intense love one time in my life. I've pissed away too much time being self-obsessed and introspective. Time for life to begin before time runs out.
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Reply 10
Hell, that's her. 
Reply 11
Anonymous
Well call me shallow, but I actually think physical, primal attraction is every bit as worthwhile and exicitng as mental/intelllectual interest in a person.
Mate, I specifically said that there is nothing wrong with falling for the physical part.
I just added that as a person, not on stage, she might not be quite what you think she is. The intended reaction in you was not to go defensive, but instead perhaps there are girls whom you can get to know better/know already, whom you also find physically attractive.
And while physical attraction is important, it can change wildly over time. Sometimes girls you abhor, later you fall for.
Reply 12
LennonMcCartney
Mate, I specifically said that there is nothing wrong with falling for the physical part.
I just added that as a person, not on stage, she might not be quite what you think she is. The intended reaction in you was not to go defensive, but instead perhaps there are girls whom you can get to know better/know already, whom you also find physically attractive.
And while physical attraction is important, it can change wildly over time. Sometimes girls you abhor, later you fall for.
I just added that as a person, not on stage, she might not be quite what you think she is. The intended reaction in you was not to go defensive, but instead perhaps there are girls whom you can get to know better/know already, whom you also find physically attractive.
And while physical attraction is important, it can change wildly over time. Sometimes girls you abhor, later you fall for.
Fair enough. Although I met her before offstage actually, when she invited me to watch.
Reply 13
So her name is Marnie Baxter, and imdb has a synopsis of her latest film, Cycle. I hope it's meant to be comedy...
Reply 14
Huh? What are you implying now?
Reply 16
Oh, just met her briefly when she invited me to watch her show. Nice show it was too.
Reply 18
I'll admit it's a crush. Nothing to do with celebrity, which she isn't really anyway. I would have a crsh on her if she were a barmaid.
Reply 19
i think it's worth pursuing. i saw a guy once in a music concert. i spent a week tracking him down, eventually got his mobile number and met up with him and some of his friends - and some of mine.
when i first saw him i was so taken by him i knew i had to find him
and no the reality wasnt quite the same - he was a nice guy but didnt have the sparkle i thought he would, i am still in contact though (4 years later).
so go for it, uv nothing to lose!
when i first saw him i was so taken by him i knew i had to find him
and no the reality wasnt quite the same - he was a nice guy but didnt have the sparkle i thought he would, i am still in contact though (4 years later).
so go for it, uv nothing to lose!
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