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Apparently I don't know about the secrets
My friend, who reckons she knows the secrets 
Has recently said that the reason why this guy I have a full-blown crush on atm, is not interested in me, is because I kinda slept with him within 3 hours of meeting him
He was so hot though, as far as surfers go anyway. Prior to this, had never had a proper one night stand before, only slept with at most 3 guys. Before he tricked me into staying at a hotel with him, he was saying stuff like 'oh you're really fit' and etc, but now he doesn't even want to speak to me!!
I find this emotionally traumatic and painful 
Has recently said that the reason why this guy I have a full-blown crush on atm, is not interested in me, is because I kinda slept with him within 3 hours of meeting him
He was so hot though, as far as surfers go anyway. Prior to this, had never had a proper one night stand before, only slept with at most 3 guys. Before he tricked me into staying at a hotel with him, he was saying stuff like 'oh you're really fit' and etc, but now he doesn't even want to speak to me!!
I find this emotionally traumatic and painful Scroll to see replies
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The reason why this guy I like isn't answering any of my calls!! Thanks 
he probably didnt think you were serious
As harsh as this might sound, maybe he's not answering you because he just saw you as a one night stand, and possibly wants nothing more to do with you.
You gave in too quick hun!!!! Should of made him 'sweat'...........its what I normally do!
Sarky
:dito:
Why would he answer your calls? You gave him what he wanted straight away.
What a random first post...
Why would he answer your calls? You gave him what he wanted straight away.
What a random first post...
I agree
He's not answering your calls because you slept with him within three hours of meeting him! To be fair and brutally honest, he probably hasn't got any respect for you and doesn't really think a relationship with a girl who would jump into bed with him as soon as she met him would be going anywhere. Variation on the 'why buy the cow' thing...kinda like what's the point in buying the cow when you've already drunk the milk! Sorry to put it so bluntly, but next time you like a guy, don't jump into bed with him straight away!
Anonymous
The reason why this guy I like isn't answering any of my calls!! Thanks
You gave him what he wanted and because of that you're not the kind of girl he wants a relationship with. What do you expect?
Thanks Anon2! 
Yeah this guy is a total prick, and guys, before you judge, you gotta know the circumstances. He bought me like 3 drinks (after I was already a bit tipsy) and offered to drive me home. He then goes 'oh I know a nice hotel bar we could go to' (this ended up being a hotel! I'm so naive ) and he took me there 
I'm not cheap and easy normally, I had just come out of a 3 year relationship.
Yeah this guy is a total prick, and guys, before you judge, you gotta know the circumstances. He bought me like 3 drinks (after I was already a bit tipsy) and offered to drive me home. He then goes 'oh I know a nice hotel bar we could go to' (this ended up being a hotel! I'm so naive
) and he took me there I'm not cheap and easy normally, I had just come out of a 3 year relationship.
He said he'd change for me, and that he was gonna take me out again after we slept together (it was the next morning). But like now he's not responding to me...
Anonymous
Thanks Anon2!
Yeah this guy is a total prick, and guys, before you judge, you gotta know the circumstances. He bought me like 3 drinks (after I was already a bit tipsy) and offered to drive me home. He then goes 'oh I know a nice hotel bar we could go to' (this ended up being a hotel! I'm so naive ) and he took me there
I'm not cheap and easy normally, I had just come out of a 3 year relationship.
Yeah this guy is a total prick, and guys, before you judge, you gotta know the circumstances. He bought me like 3 drinks (after I was already a bit tipsy) and offered to drive me home. He then goes 'oh I know a nice hotel bar we could go to' (this ended up being a hotel! I'm so naive
) and he took me there I'm not cheap and easy normally, I had just come out of a 3 year relationship.
Right.
But you get it now, yeah? You should move on to the other fish in the sea.
EDIT: Just read your above post. Read everyone's replies again, it's already been explained.
Anonymous
He said he'd change for me, and that he was gonna take me out again after we slept together (it was the next morning). But like now he's not responding to me...
Seriously..
Wake up. He just wanted to make you feel good so that you didn't feel used, and so that he didn't feel guilty. Why are you telling yourself he is interested when he isn't?
Sarky
Seriously..
Wake up. He just wanted to make you feel good so that you didn't feel used, and so that he didn't feel guilty. Why are you telling yourself he is interested when he isn't?
Wake up. He just wanted to make you feel good so that you didn't feel used, and so that he didn't feel guilty. Why are you telling yourself he is interested when he isn't?
:dito:
Tricked you? How? He complimented you and you jumped into bed at the very first opportunity.
Magic.
Magic.
bunthulhu
Right.
But you get it now, yeah? You should move on to the other fish in the sea.
EDIT: Just read your above post. Read everyone's replies again, it's already been explained.
But you get it now, yeah? You should move on to the other fish in the sea.
EDIT: Just read your above post. Read everyone's replies again, it's already been explained.
Thanks, I won't make the same mistake again - cheers for being understanding, yes I was tricked and he took advantage x
Timeslikethese
Tricked you?
I'll be getting a cab home next time, much more economical that way (I'll say no more
). 
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