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    She said she doesn't like him because he's too sarcastic but she's happy that I'm happy with him..

    I don't know what to do because we don't see each other as much as we used to as it is and with her never knowing her days off work in advance it's making it hard for us to meet up as I can't just bring him along even though he'd be happy to and has done things with me and other friends with no problems..

    This is hard for me as my best friend is unhappy that we don't really get to hang out much anymore (due to her job) and I feel like this might be causing us to become even further apart..

    It hurts me though as she said that I should break up with him (she was 'joking' but it's still not a nice thing to say..) and she said that I've changed because of him but I literally feel like I can be myself around him I'm not going to choose between them as I am really happy with him and she is my best friend but I don't know what I'm supposed to do.. She also bought up the fact that we were all hanging out with my other friend (not her) by saying "since when do you hang out with (name) again?" And because she said this I'm thinking she might be jealous but she wouldn't be happy if I were to bring that up so I didn't..
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    (Original post by LillyLisaa)
    She said she doesn't like him because he's too sarcastic but she's happy that I'm happy with him..

    I don't know what to do because we don't see each other as much as we used to as it is and with her never knowing her days off work in advance it's making it hard for us to meet up as I can't just bring him along even though he'd be happy to and has done things with me and other friends with no problems..

    This is hard for me as my best friend is unhappy that we don't really get to hang out much anymore (due to her job) and I feel like this might be causing us to become even further apart..

    It hurts me though as she said that I should break up with him (she was 'joking' but it's still not a nice thing to say..) and she said that I've changed because of him but I literally feel like I can be myself around him I'm not going to choose between them as I am really happy with him and she is my best friend but I don't know what I'm supposed to do.. She also bought up the fact that we were all hanging out with my other friend (not her) by saying "since when do you hang out with (name) again?" And because she said this I'm thinking she might be jealous but she wouldn't be happy if I were to bring that up so I didn't..
    It's completely up to you. You need to decide who is more important to you; your bestie or your boyfriend. Strictly speaking the percentage of couples that breakup being high, I'd suggest you take into account your best friend. Best friends stick around for longer than partners do :yep:
 
 
 
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