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i am THROUGH with guys.

i just don't understand.
to cut a very long story short, i saw this guy a few times before i went travelling, then on friday night was in the pub with my mate (who is involved with one of his friends) and hes all like come over if u want, so we went over, had a really good night, and have heard nothing from him since. im not going 2 make the first move but this is driving me mad!!

Reply 1

ntf

Maybe, I dunno, make the first move? Why should he have to do all the chasing?

Reply 2

Reue

20

Yeah, why exactly should he have to do all the work. sounds like he did make the first move by inviting you over.

Get over yourself.

Reply 3

Insignificant B

he wants to know if you are interested. You make that move.

Reply 4

Strictly Business

14

Lesbianism is the way forward. :yy:

Reply 5

turkish_delight

OP

10

sorry, forgot 2 add that i called him last night and nada

Reply 6

sebbie

15

this is a ridiculous thread, when i saw that you were THROUGH with guys I was expecting a heart breaking tale of how your boyfriend of many months was caught sleeping with the local slapper!

The guy has invited you round, why should he have to contact you now? He probably doesn't want to in case you had a crap time, can't you at least tell him you had a good time etc Why shouldn't you make the first move? (Not that you would be either, he has already invited you round)

Reply 7

Sithius

16

turkish_delight

i just don't understand.
to cut a very long story short, i saw this guy a few times before i went travelling, then on friday night was in the pub with my mate (who is involved with one of his friends) and hes all like come over if u want, so we went over, had a really good night, and have heard nothing from him since. im not going 2 make the first move but this is driving me mad!!

That's nice.

Reply 8

shauny

turkish_delight

sorry, forgot 2 add that i called him last night and nada

Maybe he was out/couldn't answer his phone? :biggrin:

Ring/txt him again, ask him out or whatever you're wanting..

..shauny

Reply 9

jeebus

I bet he aint all that and a bag of potato chips.

grow up

Reply 10

TheRandomer

18

Just text him/message/ring and say you had a nice time, and see what happens.. whether he seems to take the encouragement or not.
Tbh, sorry but I agree that it shouldn't really be up to him.. after all he did invite you and your friend over.
Good luck :]

Reply 11

username47781

20

Oh come on, maybe he's just generally not interested, get a grip.

Reply 12

ßlαcksωαn

17

bah, heaps of guys are *******s, move on and find a decent one, instead of those who use you for sex.

Reply 13

Malik24

This thread is silly, it takes two to tango you know.

Edit: Missed a reply. Didn't see you'd phoned him back - well if he's not interested move on. Or if you're "through with guys", don't