I feel stupid for posting this, but is it bad...

that I don't have a song that makes me think about my girlfriend in the same way that she does for me?

We miss each other when we're apart, but I think she misses me in a stronger way than I do (possibly even more than I do).....

Echk. I dunno.

Reply 1

devils_nose

10

No, its not bad.. do most people have 'a song'? Sentimental clap trap!! Just make one up and tell your girlfriend it always reminds you of her and makes you smile or something :biggrin:

Reply 2

ßlαcksωαn

17

It doesn't matter. It can be a mutual song that you've both listened to together, or it's a personal thing..which is it for her. Don't worry about it.

Reply 3

Danielle89

14

I thought only us girls did that anyway lol

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

Danielle89

I thought only us girls did that anyway lol

I am a girl XD!

blackswan

It doesn't matter. It can be a mutual song that you've both listened to together, or it's a personal thing..which is it for her. Don't worry about it.

It's a personal song... the lyrics for Sweet Child O Mine by Guns n Roses. We have listened to it together. I will admit that although she's the 'man' of the relationship, she's much more soppy and romantic than I am!

Does chivalrous mean an old fashioned male romantic, BTW?

Reply 5

Soul Rebel

12

haha you what, dont feel bad man.

Reply 6

ßlαcksωαn

17

Does chivalrous mean an old fashioned male romantic, BTW?
Yeah kind of

Reply 7

Anonymous #2

Oooh, I love the twist!

Though it does throw the sexist joke I was about to make out of the window... (no it's not bad and tbh, unless there's a radio in the kitchen, she shouldn't have a song for you either)

But really, it's not something you can force so if you don't have a song, you don't have a song. There's nothing you can do about it.

Reply 8

witchbaby

nahh, i wouldn't read into it too much. I have the same dilemma with my guy. I often feel that he is a LOT more sentimental than me, and he gets gooey very fast whereas i choose to be more pragmatic about things. Its just a case of different strokes for different folks, you can't FORCE yourself to feel the same way your girlfriend does. I mean, my boyfriend practically has withdrawal symptoms when he can't see me for a day, but i just learn to live with him clinging to my waist i guess.
We've been together for two years, very happily so, so i guess it can't be THAT much of an inconvenience ;-)

Reply 9

Danielle89

14

woops, sorry if I've offended you, because you were talking about a girlfriend I assumed you were a guy woops xxx

Reply 10

_:_Emo_Cheerleader_:_

1

Danielle89

woops, sorry if I've offended you, because you were talking about a girlfriend I assumed you were a guy woops xxx

No probs, and fair dos XD (I wouldn't have put that if I was offended...)

BTW, to Anonymous 2... what was the joke? I don't mind hearing it

Reply 11

leona

12

selbydate16

No probs, and fair dos XD (I wouldn't have put that if I was offended...)

BTW, to Anonymous 2... what was the joke? I don't mind hearing it

it was the thing about the radio in the kitchen, ie, women belong in the kitchen so would only hear songs if there was a radio in there...

heh

Reply 12

Eccentric Man

8

this?? http://www.thegroundhogs.co.uk/hogs/lyrics/ogyny.html

Reply 13

Meep!

9

Nothing wrong with that, you don't need a song to remind you of her! I quite agree with whoever it was who labelled it as 'sentimental clap trap', as that's all it really is. Having said that, there are certain songs which make me think of my bf, but only because they happen to be songs which are on the most played, and therefore the first played songs on his itunes, and it is often when I am with him that I hear those songs.

Reply 14

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12

Something by the scissor sisters LOL

I feel stupid for posting this, but is it bad...

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