Crush on a close friend

He's a very close of mines and I trust him with partically most of my life but he's got a girlfriend for over 8 months but it seems like a terrible thing to break them up for my happiness but I really really like him.

Reply 1

username47781

Sadly as hard as it is, there is absolutely nothing you can do.

Reply 2

Malik24

I would just leave it be, lest you risk losing a good friend.

Reply 3

ßlαcksωαn

Get over it. Simply as that.

Reply 4

Clubber Lang

Rock Fan

there is absolutely nothing you can do.

You sure about that?

Reply 5

Eccentric Man

Clubber Lang

You sure about that?

Says him with boxing gloves!

Reply 6

sweetface.

blackswan

Get over it. Simply as that.

Agreed.

Reply 7

DomTom

some of you seem pretty harsh about this. give constructive feedback. sorry i haven't been in your situation, and can't help you.

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

Have been in exactly the same situation for a while now. Very, very hard. Though I think I'm making progress. I'd recommend you try and distance yourself a bit from them, try and focus your attention on someone/something else if you can.

Reply 9

PhilMc

That's got to suck.

I'm sure lots of people are in the same position.

But there's nothing you can do, that wouldn't involve a row.

Reply 10

Anonymous #3

Well I'm practically in love with my best friend, so count yourself lucky that it's just a crush...

Reply 11

Cowz

Anonymous

Well I'm practically in love with my best friend, so count yourself lucky that it's just a crush...

If only people would share a? Some people are too good just for one person, like me :cool:

Reply 12

herecomestrouble

why not go for us SINGLE PEOPLE ;thumbsup; *cough cough*

Reply 13

cabeza_loca

Well, I was in EXACTLY that situation about 6 months ago. I had a MASSIVE crush on one of my best male friends who'd been going out with this girl for nearly a year.

I'd say let time do the work.

He and his girl split up in January, and I got drunk one night and told him my feelings over Easter and he told me he liked me too. We've been going out 2 months now. In time, you'll know what to do. He's with someone else so he's not available, so just try and see what happens..

sorry its not great advice.....

Reply 14

decoy

I used to have a crush on my best mate, but she's straight so blates nothing was going down there.

She never found out, unless my other mate told her and we're not as close anymore so I got over it.

Hope you work it out soon.