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    my ex and his friends keep saying they want to abuse me but its mainly his friends as theyve told me to kill myself when i want to and that theyre going to buy a rope so i can hang myself also his best friend has been saying that he wants to abuse me because im a **** and a ***** and that i should regret being born,

    is having nightmares about them abusing me normal?
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    Depends what you did.
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    (Original post by donutellme)
    Depends what you did.
    what do you mean? to my ex or his friends?
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    (Original post by Courts_Rara)
    what do you mean? to my ex or his friends?
    Either/or
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    this sounds like a police matter OP. threatening sexual violence etc is a serious offence.
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    (Original post by donutellme)
    Either/or
    I don't get what you mean? I'm sorry
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    (Original post by Courts_Rara)
    I don't get what you mean? I'm sorry
    Either of them. Depends on what you did to your ex mainly, but maybe his friends as well.
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    (Original post by donutellme)
    Either of them. Depends on what you did to your ex mainly, but maybe his friends as well.
    I didn't do anything at all, I asked for the truth and he said he told his friend that I was suicidal and about my self harm and then I've done nothing to his friends at all
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    (Original post by Courts_Rara)
    I didn't do anything at all, I asked for the truth and he said he told his friend that I was suicidal and about my self harm and then I've done nothing to his friends at all
    I.e. why did you guys break up?
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    (Original post by donutellme)
    I.e. why did you guys break up?
    His parents blamed me for his grades dropping even though we go to different schools and he was saying that he lost feelings for me after 1mth and about a week and didn't want to lead me on and he was talking about his mental stability and how his parents never liked us together and yeah
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    (Original post by Courts_Rara)
    His parents blamed me for his grades dropping even though we go to different schools and he was saying that he lost feelings for me after 1mth and about a week and didn't want to lead me on and he was talking about his mental stability and how his parents never liked us together and yeah
    So it wasn't your fault. In that case, that is totally not normal and he's probably told lots of lies about you to his friends to get that sort of response. Cut off ties.

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    (Original post by donutellme)
    So it wasn't your fault. In that case, that is totally not normal and he's probably told lots of lies about you to his friends to get that sort of response. Cut off ties.

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    It was I weren't good enough and then his friends started arguing with Me and my mates and they want to hurt me even more and it's working but my ex has left everything
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    (Original post by Courts_Rara)
    my ex and his friends keep saying they want to abuse me but its mainly his friends as theyve told me to kill myself when i want to and that theyre going to buy a rope so i can hang myself also his best friend has been saying that he wants to abuse me because im a **** and a ***** and that i should regret being born,

    is having nightmares about them abusing me normal?
    You should go to the police and report all this.
    You may be able to get an injunction if this continues
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    You NEED to cut ties with them. How are they contacting you? You said your ex goes to a different school so I'm presuming it's over social media or text? You need to save any threatening messages they've sent to you and then you need to block them. If they continue to threaten you by other means then I strongly suggest you go to the police (which is why you need to save the messages so you have proof.)

    You've done nothing wrong.


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    You NEED to cut ties with them. How are they contacting you? You said your ex goes to a different school so I'm presuming it's over social media or text? You need to save any threatening messages they've sent to you and then you need to block them. If they continue to threaten you by other means then I strongly suggest you go to the police (which is why you need to save the messages so you have proof.)

    You've done nothing wrong.


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    Yeah they're contacting me over instagram and whatsapp but the school they go to is 5 mins up the road and my parents told my ex's school about the guy that threatened to give me a rope and he got suspended for three days..
 
 
 
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