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    I'm not necessarily talking about just from romantic relationships, but also from being mistreated by (so-called) friends, family and people in general.

    I know it's certainly happening to me. And to be honest I'm actually enjoying it. If feel better not being at the mercy of others and trying to please them. I'm enjoying being selfish and putting my needs first. I'm love no longer giving an ish any more. I used to be very warm hearted and loving towards everyone but now it has to be earned.

    Anyone else care to share?
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    I call it experienced.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm not necessarily talking about just from romantic relationships, but also from being mistreated by (so-called) friends, family and people in general.

    I know it's certainly happening to me. And to be honest I'm actually enjoying it. If feel better not being at the mercy of others and trying to please them. I'm enjoying being selfish and putting my needs first. I'm love no longer giving an ish any more. I used to be very warm hearted and loving towards everyone but now it has to be earned.

    Anyone else care to share?
    Do not worry too much.
    It is natural for some people after hurtful relationships, or simply too many relationships
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    Was there a particular relationship break up or something that triggered this? Or more gradually became this way?
 
 
 
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