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    There's recently been lots of problems in both my family and my relationship. so my family issue affects my mood towards my bf. currently, I am on a break with him, but it's just day 1 and things from both side feel so crappy, he gives me 1 word answers when the reason is because I have to deal with things alone. And I think he feels like whatever he says wont change a thing.

    I honestly, don't feel like I should be in a relationship with what is going on, all I feel is sadness because I care too much. I don't know how to tell him without it sounding like an excuse. But I really love him and his support. :/
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    There's recently been lots of problems in both my family and my relationship. so my family issue affects my mood towards my bf. currently, I am on a break with him, but it's just day 1 and things from both side feel so crappy, he gives me 1 word answers when the reason is because I have to deal with things alone. And I think he feels like whatever he says wont change a thing.

    I honestly, don't feel like I should be in a relationship with what is going on, all I feel is sadness because I care too much. I don't know how to tell him without it sounding like an excuse. But I really love him and his support. :/
    The same thing happened to my friend and I tell them all the time if two people don't want the same thing then you need to be a bit selfish and think what is the best possible thing for me to do, even if it pains you terribly, do not be with anyone because you feel obliged to love them
 
 
 
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