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    I'm in a group full of couples and I have sort of taken on the role of couple counsellor in the group, which I don't mind, but at the moment they are all just arguing and it's making me feel so lonely and upset. I don't know what to do
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    (Original post by jossan)
    I'm in a group full of couples and I have sort of taken on the role of couple counsellor in the group, which I don't mind, but at the moment they are all just arguing and it's making me feel so lonely and upset. I don't know what to do
    Try to pair up
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    (Original post by M14B)
    Try to pair up
    How do you mean?
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    (Original post by jossan)
    How do you mean?
    Find a gf or bf (I do not know what you are) so you do not have to be the odd one out
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    (Original post by M14B)
    Find a gf or bf (I do not know what you are) so you do not have to be the odd one out
    Heterosexual and I'm not exactly the most attractive person ever so.... I just feel like my friends take what they have for granted and when they do I feel like crying my eyes out
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    I know the feeling!
    Maybe put yourself out there and go speak to some people you like!
    You may get lucky and not be alone anymore. It hasnt worked for me but ive not spoken to many people. Give it a go and see what happens!
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    (Original post by jossan)
    I'm in a group full of couples and I have sort of taken on the role of couple counsellor in the group, which I don't mind, but at the moment they are all just arguing and it's making me feel so lonely and upset. I don't know what to do
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    Try to pair up
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    How do you mean?
    (Original post by M14B)
    Find a gf or bf (I do not know what you are) so you do not have to be the odd one out
    The left hand is a suitable choice.
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    The left hand is a suitable choice.
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    Leave the group for a bit, say you need a holiday from them.
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    Leave the group for a bit, say you need a holiday from them.
    I really don't want to come across as offensive because in all fairness they have done a lot for me
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    The left hand is a suitable choice.
    I assume you mean masturbation?
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    (Original post by M14B)

    (Original post by jossan)
    I assume you mean masturbation?
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    (Original post by jossan)
    I really don't want to come across as offensive because in all fairness they have done a lot for me
    Then let them know how you feel, if you don't communicate they'll never know. So tell them how all their problems make you feel, then maybe you can sort it out together
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    Then let them know how you feel, if you don't communicate they'll never know. So tell them how all their problems make you feel, then maybe you can sort it out together
    Thank you thats great advice
 
 
 
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