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    Hey everyone, I'm basically writing to ask how you think I should approach the subject of my housemates (3 girls and a boy) - yesterday one of them told me that on two occasions when I have had my boyfriend over the 3 girls have huddled outside my bedroom door listening to us talking at night (I told the housemate I wasn't comfortable with this and she laughed it off and said it didn't matter because we were talking too quietly to hear what was being said), however I'm feeling quite uncomfortable about this and don't really know how to bring it up without causing conflict as I am quite close with all three of them. Any advice?
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    You have tobe sure its going on first, perhaps she was just teasing. If you are reasonably sure its going on then have a house meeting or just pick a moment or just start sounding thme out. Alternatively put a sign on your door. the danger is if you jump too soon then it could just encourage them. Alternatively just leave the door open or block it off completely.
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    Obviously they didn't think it was weird or anything... Just tell them gently that you feel a bit uncomfortable.
 
 
 
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