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    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
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    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
    I knew you were asian before I even read about the part where you said your mum criticises the type of music you listen to.

    I'm Vietnamese and my mum is exactly the same - always complaining. When I used to spill something on the table or on the floor, she would always rant about it even though i can easily get a sponge and wipe it off.

    She still complains - a lot, but not as much as before. I have been telling her, numerous times, that she needs to stop complaining because it irritates the **** out of me. You're going to have to get used to it unfortunately. You need to be mindful that her character, behaviour and english is not like a westerner's so it can't change in an instant but if you want her to complain less then you have to be assertive and tell her to stop.
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    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
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    What username said. Try and let it go in one ear and out the other. When you pass your exams and leave home, then you wont have to worry about having to listen to your mum and you can please yourself. Its hard to be assertive, but if that doesnt work then just ignore her and dont take it personally.
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    (Original post by Anonymous1502)
    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
    Think we've got the same mum lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous1502)
    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
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    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
    Although I am not supporting her attitude towards yourself and the rest of the family, I will say that just remember all the pain and suffering she endured when she had you as an infant.
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    (Original post by Anonymous1502)
    NO matter what I do whether it is chores cooking etc there is always something wrong for eg today I chopped tomatoes she tells me oh you chopped them not good they are ugly.There is always a problem she makes me feel like I don't want to wake up in the morning because she is never satisfied or ruins my morning because she argues with my dad about the stupidest things I am tired of this I wish I could just sleep and sleep because she is so annoying I try so hard to be a good daughter work hard at school do homework do chores help out etc yet she is never pleased and only complains and hurts my feelings and when I tell her that and how she makes me feel she ignores me.She always criticises my music which is Chinese folk music I listen to her stupid music all the time and don't complain so why can't I listen to at least one song.She really made me cry today because of her attitude.
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    Tell her to stfu moaning and try kicking her
 
 
 
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