I have pined after a guy for 3 years and realised that it is a waste of time. He is quite shy and has made attempts to show his interest. When I do show him my interest or tell him vocally that I like him or would like to spend more time with him he backs off, panics and disappears for months on end. I never thought he was shy as I have seen him speak to other women but when he is around me he struggles to talk.
The situation has not done my self esteem any good and I have lost my confidence and feel I am not good enough for anybody. I feel like I have put my life on hold for this guy when I know other guys want to date me. It is clear he is emotionally unavailable and I don't know how to get out of this situation as when I start moving on he turns up again.
Which unis have sent theirs?