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    When i needed help with my date i found it! and it did me good , so i thought i would make a scoiety for this kinda things, where guys/gurls can discuss and ask about such things, and gurls/guys cn give advice

    Anyone interested?
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    Can't gurls ask advice and guys give advice too??
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    (Original post by Amb1)
    Can't gurls ask advice and guys give advice too??
    Ofcourse, its all about relationships! Wanna join?
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    Well I am in a relationship and I do tend to get involved in the relationshippy threads.
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    (Original post by Amb1)
    Well I am in a relationship and I do tend to get involved in the relationshippy threads.
    Cool, the 1st member
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    (Original post by KOH)
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    I wonder if the list will get any longer!!!
    btw - shouldn't I be at the top (alphabetical order)!!
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    can i join please
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    member no.2 please!

    my question for the day- my best friend is a really pretty girl, we're always telling her this, she's a good socialiser and has a great personality,so why hasn't she found anyone yet? guys what is wrong with you?
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    (Original post by priya)
    member no.2 please!

    my question for the day- my best friend is a really pretty girl, we're always telling her this, she's a good socialiser and has a great personality,so why hasn't she found anyone yet? guys what is wrong with you?
    maybe shes too pretty and guys wouldn't ask her out? or thinks shes taken?
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    I will join- i am in a relationship and can share my expertise!!



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    (Original post by priya)
    member no.2 please!

    my question for the day- my best friend is a really pretty girl, we're always telling her this, she's a good socialiser and has a great personality,so why hasn't she found anyone yet? guys what is wrong with you?

    Afraid of rejection??
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    (Original post by KOH)
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    (Original post by priya)
    member no.2 please!

    my question for the day- my best friend is a really pretty girl, we're always telling her this, she's a good socialiser and has a great personality,so why hasn't she found anyone yet? guys what is wrong with you?
    A lot of guys probably think that she's way out of their league. People (m + f) often feel intimidated when they're around a very attractive girl. As she's a good socialiser with a great personality boys may see her as more of a friend (who's way out of their league), and they might hold back for fear of ruining the friendship. It might be that people don't want to go out with her because they know she's perfect and if they start a relationship with her it could easily last forever, and they don't want to settle with anyone just yet. It may also be that people are scared that any relationship with her would be on her terms/she would be in control - because she has the looks, the personality, the social skills... she appears to have it all and to be content as single so any flaws in a partner would be highlighted, and possible partners may be put off because they know she can be perfectly happy on her own.
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    can i join please
    Ofcourse
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    a lot of people know she's single- i just find it odd that other girls who are, how shall i put it, not as nice in any way compared to my friend, get snapped up on the spot.

    as for too pretty- well there are people we both know who are equally or perhaps more pretty, who never have any trouble. i dunno. having said that, the creme of the wirral boys population are pretty much taken as well/are idiots
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    (Original post by Amb1)
    A lot of guys probably think that she's way out of their league. People (m + f) often feel intimidated when they're around a very attractive girl. As she's a good socialiser with a great personality boys may see her as more of a friend (who's way out of their league), and they might hold back for fear of ruining the friendship. It might be that people don't want to go out with her because they know she's perfect and if they start a relationship with her it could easily last forever, and they don't want to settle with anyone just yet. It may also be that people are scared that any relationship with her would be on her terms/she would be in control - because she has the looks, the personality, the social skills... she appears to have it all and to be content as single so any flaws in a partner would be highlighted, and possible partners may be put off because they know she can be perfectly happy on her own.
    Agreed, this falls "in my opinion" into the catagory: TO CUTE FOR HER OWN GOOD" Like my Bro, no one will date him coz they think: There is no way THIS guy isnt in a realtioship
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    Can I join, I'm not in a relationship so I can share my cynicism.

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    (Original post by priya)
    a lot of people know she's single- i just find it odd that other girls who are, how shall i put it, not as nice in any way compared to my friend, get snapped up on the spot.

    as for too pretty- well there are people we both know who are equally or perhaps more pretty, who never have any trouble. i dunno. having said that, the creme of the wirral boys population are pretty much taken as well/are idiots
    Is she not confident enough/ too confident? Arrognat? there has to smthn that pushin all the guys away!
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    i'll join! im gud with advice
 
 
 
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