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Is he wrong?

Me and my ex have been close since we split up but now he being really nasty and says he doesnt want to talk to me or see me ever again and it has really upset me. He said its for my own good and he was the one that always wanted to see me. Why is he being like this? He doesnt undertand how much he has hurt me. A lot of people still talk to their ex occasionally so why doesnt he want to do that? Any advice would be good

Reply 1

dh00001

16

some people can stay friends with their ex others cant. hes not wrong, perhaps hes making sure you know its over and wont think any more of him as you would if you keep seeing him.

Reply 2

campbell87

8

He might feel like your getting too close to him again? Or it could be that he is intersted in somebody else and he/or the other see's you as a threat? Guys can be just a mysterious as women at times and their actions hard to explain. Id say you just need to mov on now, he's the one whos decided he wants nothing more to do with you for whatever reason, so you should see this as an 'official' ending to it all and go out ther, single and on the prowl!

Reply 3

apricot

OP

10

I got over him a long time ago and he the one that wanted to meet up all the time. A month ago he was all afffectionate and said that he loved me. I know it over but i just want to be able to carry on talkin to him and hes hurt me so much by doing this.

Reply 4

notsoperfect

1

apricot

I got over him a long time ago and he the one that wanted to meet up all the time. A month ago he was all afffectionate and said that he loved me. I know it over but i just want to be able to carry on talkin to him and hes hurt me so much by doing this.

you say you got over him a long time ago. so obviously it is easier for you to see him. it sounds like he isn't over you at all - i know he says he doesn't want to see you, but he probably means he CAN'T see you for his own state of mind. it probably drives him mad seeing you. he needs to get over you, and he obviously can't do this by seeing you around.

you need to respect his wishes and remember that just because you found it easy to get over him, it isn't necessarily the same for him. it can be really hard for some people to get over an ex, and the only way to get over it is to cut contact.

Reply 5

annsmith

apricot

Me and my ex have been close since we split up but now he being really nasty and says he doesnt want to talk to me or see me ever again and it has really upset me. He said its for my own good and he was the one that always wanted to see me. Why is he being like this? He doesnt undertand how much he has hurt me. A lot of people still talk to their ex occasionally so why doesnt he want to do that? Any advice would be good

If he is avoiding talking to you, you do the same.

Reply 6

dh00001

16

after time maybe you can speak again. its possible hes severed contact so he can sort his head out and get over you. leave him to it. worrying over it and trying to get him to change his mind will only cause you more heartache

Reply 7

apricot

OP

10

I'm not saying it was easy to get over him. He made it easy by saying and doing hurtful things then he would put on the prince charming act again. He wa my first and I'm finding it difficult not to keep in contact but hes busy this summer anyway so i might just let him cool off before i even think about sending him a text. I think the easiest way to get over him would be to get with someone new but it isnt as easy a that is it. Hopefully it will be better at uni and i can get over him properly

Reply 8

notsoperfect

1

apricot

I'm not saying it was easy to get over him. He made it easy by saying and doing hurtful things then he would put on the prince charming act again. He wa my first and I'm finding it difficult not to keep in contact but hes busy this summer anyway so i might just let him cool off before i even think about sending him a text. I think the easiest way to get over him would be to get with someone new but it isnt as easy a that is it. Hopefully it will be better at uni and i can get over him properly

i think the easiest way to get over someone is not to see them. so respect his wishes and cut contact.

Reply 9

username47781

20

Agreed stop contacting him.

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