ex boyfriend contacting me

First off, I can't stand him, he broke up with me 2 years ago, he accused me of cheating on him which I never did, and while we were going out he was extremely controlling and didn't let me see my friends. I saw him a year and a half ago and he started an argument with me and blamed me for all his problems up until then, e.g. not getting on with his mum, not getting into the uni he wanted to go to. He even blamed me for him now using cocaine. I refused to speak to him and told him I wasn't responsible for him and he hurt me when we went out, and he laughed at me and told me. I haven't seen him since then, I would be extremely surprised if he didn't know what I think of him, but today he wrote on my wall on facebook (hes not my friend but were in the same network so he can see my profile) he wrote "I do not know what the end is" in french, and then he wrote, "lol, sorry for the graffiti, peace love and trees, sorry if you don't want to talk to me"
I would have thought he would maybe want to apologise not just make no sense? I really don't like him, and he knows it, so am I overreacting? If I do reply, what should I say?

Reply 1

dh00001

if you dont want to speak to him and dont like him, dont bother replying.
keep yourself distanced else you could get hurt again

Reply 2

bunnycatkid

I think you're probably right! Only thing is there is a part of me that really badly wants him to know what an idiot he is, which will probably lead to me saying something very childish, I shall have to do my best not to stoop to his level :smile:

Reply 3

dh00001

theres no point. hes argued and balmed you before, why let it happen again :smile:

Reply 4

zav

Let it go not worth the hassel

Reply 5

ISH

This falls under the unspoken rule of "don't feed trolls"

Reply 6

username47781

Why waste your time replying to him?

Reply 7

randomgirl

Yeah don't bother. It doesn't sound like he's worth a second of your time.

Reply 8

notsoperfect

don't reply. don't even send him anything polite and meaningless or he'll strike up a conversation! just leave it. i have an ex who does this from time to time (contacts me via the internet)... it's pathetic, because he was the one who treated me badly to start with - i used to quite like the attention but now that i'm totally over him i just find it hilarious that he's still thinking about me. he's a loser. anyway. IGNORE HIM x

Reply 9

username47781

Clearly he is realising what he has lost, you are much better than him.

Reply 10

bunnycatkid

Thankyou very much! I deleted his message and his picture, it felt really good :biggrin:

Reply 11

tonymac

bunnycatkid

Thankyou very much! I deleted his message and his picture, it felt really good :biggrin:

Great decision!

He is only trying to get a reaction, before by starting an argument, and now trying a new technique!

Reply 12

lilsuperhunni

i completely know where your coming ffrom. you should just ignore him n move on...obviously he hasnt. my ex blames me for the fact he knocked up a 15 year old.i hadnt seen him since i caught him cheatin on me 2yrs ago...finds me n blames me.so really he just wants a reaction.at least your one isnt asking for one night stands while his baby mother waits for him at home.
just ignore him and dont respond...he isnt worth it. n the fact he is on coke....deff not worth it.
GREAT DECISION!!!

Reply 13