So I have been going on dates with a guy for about a month now. We have met 5 times and spent along time together on our dates. We have kissed on our last 2 dates so I think he is interested but i didn't hear from him yesterday and today I noticed him online on the dating site we met from. This surprised me as I know he is looking for a relationship. I know I was online too, but I am not interested in talking to or meeting anyone from there, I was just clearing my notifications. However I am worried that he isn't that interested in me. I really like him and now am really interested to know what is going on in his head. I really don't want to come across as desperate or clingy or anything so I am not sure how to play it. I don't want to get more physical with him if he is interested in others.
Is there a way I could talk to him about this or is it too soon?
1 month dating too soon? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 19-04-2016 18:52
- 19-04-2016 18:56
He's banging other chicks
- Thread Starter
- 19-04-2016 19:01
- 19-04-2016 19:58
I never really experienced these dating sites and all. But like generally speaking, you should try dating someone who's around you? like in your school/college? Someone you know or your friends know.
Things might work out between you two, but getting through the doubts and actually gaining trust and loyalty in each other might become an issue. Idk. Think about it. You cant be the only one trying to keep this thing you have between you both alive. He has to try. And with what you've said, he doesn't seem to show interest tbh? Or maybe he's not the down to earth type of dude.
- 19-04-2016 20:47
Honestly, he's a guy, he's thinking that YOU won't want to get physical just yet, if you want to get physical then you initiate it. I.e ask if he wants to come upstairs to bed
- 19-04-2016 21:05
It's impossible to know. Talk to him about that?
I don't want to scare you but words are only words. I was in a similar situation with a girl I had met on a dating site too. She had given me a nice speech saying she had a kid and wanted something serious. I was with her 2 months and she was ****ing another guy when we were together lol.