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    So after a few years of trying to get a gf, and no success, and a few crushes that just left me sad, I said **** it and got an escort.
    I'm 18 and she was 19.
    I was quite nervous/awkward and I don't really regret doing it, like I am going back to her when I get the money, but I feel somewhat like I've done something wrong, obviously I would have liked to lost my virginity to one of the girls I was in love with, but I can't talk to girls over text(I'm ****ing terrible at reading signals and flirting), that and the girl I was in love with was 15 so even if she did like me back...I wouldn't have had sex with her. So I feel slightly regretful that it wasn't to someone special, but I did enjoy it. Is it wrong to get an escort(morally speaking).
    It was slightly awkward as she was taller than me, haha, but I really wanted a bit of intimacy with a female, like I hadn't kissed a girl before her(though it wasn't a proper kiss, no tongues) and I cuddled her a lot as well, did what I wanted to do and touched what I wanted to. I wore a condom so I'm not worried about disease. Was it wrong of me?
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    loooooooooooooooooooooool
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    I missed your point in all that graphic detail
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    It's only wrong if you let yourself feel that it is - it's just an escort.
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    Loooool your question
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So after a few years of trying to get a gf, and no success, and a few crushes that just left me sad, I said **** it and got an escort.
    I'm 18 and she was 19.
    I was quite nervous/awkward and I don't really regret doing it, like I am going back to her when I get the money, but I feel somewhat like I've done something wrong, obviously I would have liked to lost my virginity to one of the girls I was in love with, but I can't talk to girls over text(I'm ****ing terrible at reading signals and flirting), that and the girl I was in love with was 15 so even if she did like me back...I wouldn't have had sex with her. So I feel slightly regretful that it wasn't to someone special, but I did enjoy it. Is it wrong to get an escort(morally speaking).
    It was slightly awkward as she was taller than me, haha, but I really wanted a bit of intimacy with a female, like I hadn't kissed a girl before her(though it wasn't a proper kiss, no tongues) and I cuddled her a lot as well, did what I wanted to do and touched what I wanted to. I wore a condom so I'm not worried about disease. Was it wrong of me?
    Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

    That is quite a sad story. Instead of being desperate and getting an 'escort' why don't you better yourself as a person and maybe then you'll find a gf? I mean the fact that you actually gave up on getting a girlfriend and got an escort instead speaks for itself, not sure you're the type of person girls want to date.
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    You were only 18 and that desperate???????
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    (Original post by BWV1007)
    It's only wrong if you let yourself feel that it is - it's just an escort.
    Just an escort? More like a prostitute.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Just an escort? More like a prostitute.
    What's wrong with prostitutes? If you don't like them don't **** them.
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    I missed your point in all that graphic detail
    I could go into more about what I did if you want lol
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    Nope.

    Things don't always work out how you want them to.

    Good for you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.

    That is quite a sad story. Instead of being desperate and getting an 'escort' why don't you better yourself as a person and maybe then you'll find a gf? I mean the fact that you actually gave up on getting a girlfriend and got an escort instead speaks for itself, not sure you're the type of person girls want to date.
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    You were only 18 and that desperate???????
    It's legal, not gonna lie I feel much happier now I have had some intimacy with the other sex. I've been trying really hard to get a gf and it just hasn't happened so.
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    (Original post by Fxbszmn)
    Loooool your question
    what? I assume you think it was wrong then?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It's legal, not gonna lie I feel much happier now I have had some intimacy with the other sex. I've been trying really hard to get a gf and it just hasn't happened so.
    Lol ok then just take the easy option and **** a prostitute, well done mate.
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    (Original post by BWV1007)
    What's wrong with prostitutes? If you don't like them don't **** them.
    The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    what? I assume you think it was wrong then?
    No omg. You're free to do whatever you want with whoever you want!
    How much did the escort cost
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lol ok then just take the easy option and **** a prostitute, well done mate.
    I assume you find it easy to get girls, in which case you wouldn't understand.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes, it is wrong. Escort is just a word you use to hide the fact that you're just ****ing a prostitute, which is illegal I believe.
    Maybe where you are it its, but not in the UK.

    OP dont worry about it, as long as it was two consenting adults, then its nobody elses business.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.
    What is wrong with them? As long as she's genuinely consenting.
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    how much did it cost?
    how good was it? what did she do?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The answer is so obvious it shouldn't even be a question.
    Really. Do you have a problem with gays then? If you don't, it's time to realise that sexual intercourse between any two or more consenting non-blood related adults is perfectly fine in most cases - same as homosexual relationships.
 
 
 
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