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    Im going to talk to her tomorrow for the first time and idk what to say.

    I was thinking to say hi and then give a compliment probably about what she is wearing. But then what do i say after that lol, and when do I ask for her number?
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    You should just be confident and not worry. Don't make up a script in your head, let the conversation flow naturally. Definitely compliment her and make her feel comfortable in your presence and that is down to you yourself being comfortable. I'm not sure if you mean you will see her at school or somewhere else but talk about lessons and interests, understand what she likes.

    Maybe you could ask if she has Snapchat or instagram first cause you don't want to overwhelm her. But depending on how the conversation goes you could be like 'oh i would love to learn more about you'

    Good luck! It will be fine! Don't stress!
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    Don't compliment her randomly.

    Start a convo, and if it goes well, end with asking for her number or whatever.
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    "Hey. How's it going?" ... Pick a topic you've both most likely experienced or seen. Engage in conversation, don't jump straight to flattery! Be confident and listen. "I really like your..." Pick something you genuinely like or something she's put effort into, like her hairstyle. Don't compliment her eyes or whatever because we girls don't have any say in what our eyes look like. If she responds warmly, keep going, don't over-do it with flattery, try and hold a normal conversation! Then, finally, try to invite her somewhere. A party, the cinema, whatever, and ask for her number so you can text her the details.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im going to talk to her tomorrow for the first time and idk what to say.

    I was thinking to say hi and then give a compliment probably about what she is wearing. But then what do i say after that lol, and when do I ask for her number?
    just take about something she's wearing and compare it to something you're wearing
    (i always go for the watch but thats a complex skill to master at a distance)
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im going to talk to her tomorrow for the first time and idk what to say.I was thinking to say hi and then give a compliment probably about what she is wearing. But then what do i say after that lol, and when do I ask for her number?
    Completely sympathise with this - so don't worry you're not alone and doing better than some people! I guess confidence is the main thing! :hatsoff :Now I hope you don't mind but I'm stealing any advice you get for myself! :mmm:
 
 
 
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