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    Me and this girl have been texting for over a month now everyday like a non stop continuous conversation. Sometimes I take a few hours to reply but I always try to continue the conversation. She often takes a long time to reply but is online on snapchat/facebook but not replying? She sometimes makes effort to continue the conversation and sometimes doesn't. From replying for over a month I would get the idea that she is interested but there has been no progression. I wouldn't say the messages are "flirty" at all. Also with the length of time she often takes to reply (but still being online and posting elsewhere) I'm wondering whether it is just an inconvenience to her. What do you guys think?
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    If it was an inconvenience to her she probably would've stopped texting a long time ago. Have you met up before? Maybe suggest doing something as she may be bored of just texting and not seeing you irl


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    (Original post by qwerty16652)
    Me and this girl have been texting for over a month now everyday like a non stop continuous conversation. Sometimes I take a few hours to reply but I always try to continue the conversation. She often takes a long time to reply but is online on snapchat/facebook but not replying? She sometimes makes effort to continue the conversation and sometimes doesn't. From replying for over a month I would get the idea that she is interested but there has been no progression. I wouldn't say the messages are "flirty" at all. Also with the length of time she often takes to reply (but still being online and posting elsewhere) I'm wondering whether it is just an inconvenience to her. What do you guys think?
    I'm more wondering why you guys have not met, or have you?
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    This sounds long. When are you going to meet up with her?
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    Just make an excuse to plan something?

    If you've been talking for that long you must have some common ground. For example, say something like "I have nothing to do all weekend, would you like to meet up and do [activity]?" or if you don't want to be so direct something like "I really want to see [film] but none of my friends are bothered about going?" and see how she responds?

    If she says yes then winner for you. If she says no you know she isn't bothered and your question as to if she is interested has been answered. If she is interested and can't make it surely she will say something like "Damn I can't do this weekend but would love to do something soon".

    Good luck my friend.
 
 
 
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