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If you had sex with a best friend in the past, would you tell your partner? watch

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    If in the past you'd had no strings attached regular sex with a best friend (same or different gender but in my case I'm a girl he's a boy) would you tell your new partner?

    On one hand I want to be honest and open so I am probably going to tell him if he asks, especially as it would end the relationship if he found out... but I am also concerned he wouldn't understand there's nothing between us and there isn't going to be and if there was, then we'd be together... and he'd make me choose between him or my best friend... or at the very least never get on with him in a way I'd like.

    Also vice versa, if my best friend got a girlfriend I think girls are less understanding.
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    Under what circumstances would he ask if you've slept with your best friend? Are you very flirty with each other or something? No guys I've dated have ever asked me if I've had a thing with my best friend. Your best bet is to be honest if the subject does come to light and hope for the best.
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    (Original post by phunky_fresh)
    Under what circumstances would he ask if you've slept with your best friend? Are you very flirty with each other or something? No guys I've dated have ever asked me if I've had a thing with my best friend. Your best bet is to be honest if the subject does come to light and hope for the best.
    No I wouldn't say so but because we are such good friends people have asked before. People have asked about my other close guy friends too who I'm not flirty with.
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    Why would your partner care about it in the past?
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    (Original post by Vikingninja)
    Why would your partner care about it in the past?
    because we don't want to date sluts? true for me atleast
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    truth hurts but lies but lies worse :yep:
    i would - no point of starting a relationship with a lie :noway:
 
 
 
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