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    There is this girl that I desire and we've been seeing each other (not dating) for a couple of months without much flirting (but she knows there is something there otherwise there is no reason to keep seeing her and doing stuff together) but we've got to know each other fairly well.

    I am thinking of making a sexual move on her next week (not a sudden move but a gradual move leading to penetration if it doesn't stop before that). Is this wise or not? How would our relationship change after this given it ends on a positive note and given it ends on a negative note?
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    Brighton is a good choice
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    Dont worry about it.. just go balls deep in them sugar walls
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    (Original post by Ruhail25)
    Dont worry about it.. just go balls deep in them sugar walls
    That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

    I love the Hodgetwins :lol:
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

    I love the Hodgetwins :lol:
    Haha😂theyre so dopey but funny asf
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    (Original post by Eternalflames)
    That mushroom tip in dem sugar walls :rofl:

    I love the Hodgetwins :lol:
    What do you know about mushroom tips 😂

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    (Original post by ServantOfMorgoth)
    What do you know about mushroom tips 😂

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    Nothing, I've never seen one. But that's what the hodgetwins say
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    (Original post by Ruhail25)
    Haha😂theyre so dopey but funny asf
    Yeah, I watch all 3 channels but they make me laugh so much. Even the weightlifting one, they make jokes about their meals too :lol:
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    (Original post by zill1)
    There is this girl that I desire and we've been seeing each other (not dating) for a couple of months without much flirting (but she knows there is something there otherwise there is no reason to keep seeing her and doing stuff together) but we've got to know each other fairly well.

    I am thinking of making a sexual move on her next week (not a sudden move but a gradual move leading to penetration if it doesn't stop before that). Is this wise or not? How would our relationship change after this given it ends on a positive note and given it ends on a negative note?
    You're being a bit too vague. The stuff you're already doing together..is this sexual or not?

    Your sexual "move" could just be asking. You don't have to make consent difficult 🙄
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    (Original post by ~Tara~)
    You're being a bit too vague. The stuff you're already doing together..is this sexual or not?

    No, not sexual.
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    Ok so?
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    (Original post by zill1)
    No, not sexual.
    So you're not dating or otherwise being sexual/flirting but this girl should somehow know that that's why you keep contact with her because why else would a guy treat a girl like a friend..

    And you plan to grope until resistance yet somehow that's not creepy

    You don't sound like you care about any kind of relationship with her. You're basically in it for the sexual part so what does it matter if she doesn't reciprocate? Either you have sex or you don't and you'll be formally released from your obligation of treating a girl like a human being in order to get sex.
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    (Original post by ~Tara~)
    So you're not dating or otherwise being sexual/flirting but this girl should somehow know that that's why you keep contact with her because why else would a guy treat a girl like a friend..

    And you plan to grope until resistance yet somehow that's not creepy

    You don't sound like you care about any kind of relationship with her. You're basically in it for the sexual part so what does it matter if she doesn't reciprocate? Either you have sex or you don't and you'll be formally released from your obligation of treating a girl like a human being in order to get sex.


    I think you are right. I should really "take her out" and talk things through. Maybe I just don't have enough loving feeling for her?
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    Thing is what I'm really after is some regular bonking but to do that I need to start the first one which is proving to be really difficult.
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    From the way you described your approach, the negative outcome is it ends with the police and maybe crimewatch.
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    (Original post by zill1)
    Thing is what I'm really after is some regular bonking but to do that I need to start the first one which is proving to be really difficult.
    I really don't think you care about a relationship at all if all you want is 'regular bonking'. You're a COUPLE OF MONTHS into a relationship. Sure, what you want is fine but you're making consent so difficult. Just open up to her and see if she feels the same. Bit awkward if when you make a move, she completely rejects you.
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    (Original post by SubZero~)
    I really don't think you care about a relationship at all if all you want is 'regular bonking'. You're a COUPLE OF MONTHS into a relationship. Sure, what you want is fine but you're making consent so difficult. Just open up to her and see if she feels the same. Bit awkward if when you make a move, she completely rejects you.
    They're not in a relationship though. They are just friends currently and the OP expects to make a move and be willingly given sex.

    OP have you even kissed this girl? Your first move on her is not going to result in sex. Talk to her first. It doesn't even sound like you like her personality, just only her looks.
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    (Original post by Airmed)
    They're not in a relationship though. They are just friends currently and the OP expects to make a move and be willingly given sex.

    OP have you even kissed this girl? Your first move on her is not going to result in sex. Talk to her first. It doesn't even sound like you like her personality, just only her looks.
    You seem to know your stuff. How old are you?
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    (Original post by zill1)
    You seem to know your stuff. How old are you?
    19. It's more that I have common sense and I'm a girl; I've been kissed once without forewarning and it was bloody horrible.
 
 
 
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