Having difficulty making sense of this feeling.
Before we went out my ex-gf was really keen on me. She'd liked me for nearly a year and would always be really excitable around me. She seeked me out to hang out with at social events and told me I was her favourite person at uni. I thought she might even love me.
She broke up with me when she realised we weren't compatible. Towards the end of the relationship I felt a lot of rejection and neglect from her. Now she seems either indifferent or disdainful of me - like I'm NOW her least favourite person.
I can't believe how her attitude towards me has u-turned. Though I should just be happy that I did matter to her in the past, it feels like a massive loss and I hate not being that special person to her anymore.
What are the downsides?