I'm new to this forum so be nice lol
Ive been on and off with my bf for almost a year and we've never had sex because i'm just really nervous/scared about the whole thing. This is not his first time. Whilst we have been together we have just sort of done touchy/feely sort of stuff not gone all the way. He hasn't really pressured me into doing anything which i have appreciated but we are planning to go away soon and he is hoping to take things to the next level. i'm just really nervous and looking for a bit of advice from someone who has been in the same situation. I see sex as a special thing to do with your partner but im sort of dreading it and just feel like getting it over and done with because ive over thought everything and now im really nervous. I know this sounds stupid but i dont really have anyone i can talk to so im counting on you haha
- Thread Starter
- 23-04-2016 23:55
- 24-04-2016 02:23
Hi OP! For your first time, ask him to be very gentle and slow. It will be uncomfortable but the more you have sex the better it will feel! Make sure he wears a condom until you know he is clean and you are on a reliable form of birth control, and above all, only do what you're comfortable doing!
Just relax and take things slowly, and it will be okay. It really deepens the connection between you and your partner, and it feels great too pm me if you'd like to talk!
- 24-04-2016 02:26
Just get him to ram it in as quickly and hard as possible.