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He kissed another

I've been in a relationship with my bf for about 16 months now...i really love this guy a lot...hes been like someone who i actually trust as ive never really had a good relationship with my mother (im 16..pretty young..yes) and my father had always wanted to be away from the hassel of kids or family...hes more like a free ranger type. Just as i thought i had someone to rest to rely on my bf has kissed another girl..he says i had the full right to get mad at him but the reason he put forward was it wasnt his fault as she was "coming on to him"...tbh ive never understood how this can actually happen as the guy can simply say no and walk away...i never actually expected this from him and when he told me i didnt know how to react therefore i cut the phone but texted him later to tell him i would call him tomorrow (we have a far distant relatoinship) not only this but the girl he kissed was his cousin...a far related cousin....i dont want im asking for but im numb..what am i ment to do?

Reply 1

think more about the situation... its a long distance relationship so its hard to see each other alot... mayb he feels tempted by other people...
wen he sed she came onto him? lame.. he could have pushed her away.
do u trust him anymore? think about the trust issue between u and think about if u can trust him so far away from u... mayb it mite b easier to find someone local to u..
hope this helps abit..
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