Hes kissed another

I've been in a relationship with my bf for about 16 months now...i really love this guy a lot...hes been like someone who i actually trust as ive never really had a good relationship with my mother (im 16..pretty young..yes) and my father had always wanted to be away from the hassel of kids or family...hes more like a free ranger type. Just as i thought i had someone to rest to rely on my bf has kissed another girl..he says i had the full right to get mad at him but the reason he put forward was it wasnt his fault as she was "coming on to him"...tbh ive never understood how this can actually happen as the guy can simply say no and walk away...i never actually expected this from him and when he told me i didnt know how to react therefore i cut the phone but texted him later to tell him i would call him tomorrow (we have a far distant relatoinship) not only this but the girl he kissed was his cousin...a far related cousin....i dont want im asking for but im numb..what am i ment to do?

Reply 1

À la mode

I'd speak to him and see what he says. If you love him that much than give him another chance- people do make mistakes.
However, as you said he could have just rejected her, so maybe he isn't quite telling the truth. The main thing is that if you can't trust him (regardless of how long you have been going out) then it's not the best basis for a relationship, in my opinion.
Good luck, and give him a chance if that seems right. Go with your head though!

Reply 2

randomgirl

Just talk things over with him.

Reply 3

randum_nandom

thanks for your replies you two...but everytime i try to talk to him i keep thinking of how he kinda broken my trust...being in unstable relatopships with my family made it hard for me but when i met him it almost as if i restored my balance in a odd way and now....i feel as if hes like everyone else..

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