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    Hey guys,

    Basically, been talking to a girl I really like that I met off tinder for probably around a month and a half. We have spoken everyday via text (she asked for my number) and also snapchat, we talk literally all day everyday on these. I really like her and am always complimenting her as well as having banter with her sometimes, and I guess she must like me a little bit at least or see's us going somewhere otherwise she would have stopped talking to me, right? We both go to the uni and our homes are probably around 3 hours away from each other. However, I've only met her once, a brief encounter on a night out, we had a quick chat but I left her to enjoy her night with her friends and for me to enjoy mine with my friends.

    I really would like to ask her to meet up sometime and go out on sort of a date but I'm quite a shy and quiet guy at first until I get to know someone, so I'm afraid that if I do meet up with her and it's a bit awkward because of my shyness that she won't want to talk anymore. Time also isn't on my side as uni finishes soon.

    Any tips or advice for me at all? I have literally no experience in dating or speaking to girls before, I've never done it so anything and everything is appreciated.
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    tell her that you should do something together. I know its hard but be assertive and tell her "Let's do this...." or "I wanna try this, you should come with.." or send her a trailer for a film you wanna see. Not a cheesy film, a genuinely good film. Tell her you enjoyed meeting her.
    Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you get shy.
    Good luck, I hope you guys make it, it sounds cute af.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    tell her that you should do something together. I know its hard but be assertive and tell her "Let's do this...." or "I wanna try this, you should come with.." or send her a trailer for a film you wanna see. Not a cheesy film, a genuinely good film. Tell her you enjoyed meeting her.
    Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you get shy.
    Good luck, I hope you guys make it, it sounds cute af.
    Thanks for the reply, the thing that is stopping me is that I'm not really sure what she wants. She says she loves talking to me and I'm not boring like most of the guys talk to her are. We both feel as if we know each other well and have told each other some pretty personal stuff too. I don't really know how to bring it up in a conversation.
 
 
 
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