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    If you'd already messed up your chances with your one crush who you do truley think the world of and know you won't meet anyone as special a her ever again would you give up on romance and love and happiness?
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    If you'd already messed up your chances with your one crush who you do truley think the world of and know you won't meet anyone as special a her ever again would you give up on romance and love and happiness?
    No.
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    (Original post by RiahDawson)
    No.
    How do you even want to try again knowing that you can't ever have your special someone and that it is atleast partially your own fault. I really hate myself
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    No. You can have love with numerous people and it will never be the same as with the previous person, but it's still love.
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    If you'd already messed up your chances with your one crush who you do truley think the world of and know you won't meet anyone as special a her ever again would you give up on romance and love and happiness?
    No. If you give up then you will never win.


    It is very naive to think that your current (extreme) infatuation is the only thing that you will feel.
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    How do you even want to try again knowing that you can't ever have your special someone and that it is atleast partially your own fault. I really hate myself
    Because you'll meet someone even more special. Maybe not today but someday you will. If they really were the only one for you it would have worked out. You say "partially" so its not all your fault. They would have tried harder if it was meant to be.
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    You've met maybe 5000 people maximum. And there are almost 4 billion (if you're attracted to only one sex). Do you even statistics?
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    I swear to God if you don't shut up soon i'm going to track her down and bang her myself
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    How do you even want to try again knowing that you can't ever have your special someone and that it is atleast partially your own fault. I really hate myself
    You'll love again. Don't hate yourself. Someone will come along and make you forget that the other person existed.
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    Winners never quit!
    You give up, youll never win!
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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    No. You can have love with numerous people and it will never be the same as with the previous person, but it's still love.
    It won't be as good with someone else, if I was with another girl is spend the whole time wishing it was her

    (Original post by SeanFM)
    No. If you give up then you will never win.


    It is very naive to think that your current (extreme) infatuation is the only thing that you will feel.
    I know I won't ever get such strong feelings again, I can't explain why but I know it, there's literally nothing about her id change so there's no way I could find someone better

    (Original post by RiahDawson)
    Because you'll meet someone even more special. Maybe not today but someday you will. If they really were the only one for you it would have worked out. You say "partially" so its not all your fault. They would have tried harder if it was meant to be.
    It's only partially my fault because bad circumstance ruined some of the plans I had but I could have been less of a wimp and just got her number when we talked for the first time but I didn't because I was to shy

    (Original post by BristolFresher15)
    You've met maybe 5000 people maximum. And there are almost 4 billion (if you're attracted to only one sex). Do you even statistics?
    She's so unique and special even if there were maybe 1 or 2 girls on the entire planet who could possibly compare to her I won't ever meet them. I guarantee I won't meet anyone else I like as much as her

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    I swear to God if you don't shut up soon i'm going to track her down and bang her myself
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    (Original post by twhiddy)
    You'll love again. Don't hate yourself. Someone will come along and make you forget that the other person existed.
    How can I not hate myself? I ruined my own happiness. I just wish I could be with her for even 1 day even just 1 intimate miment ,1 single kiss or hand hold. No one can replace her in my heart, if I go another gf I would just be wishing it was her instead
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    Winners never quit!
    You give up, youll never win!
    I already lost
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
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    You only think that because you're still reeling from whatever happened. Trust me, she isn't that unique. If you already messed it up to the point where its irredeemable, just let it go.
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    It won't be as good with someone else, if I was with another girl is spend the whole time wishing it was her



    I know I won't ever get such strong feelings again, I can't explain why but I know it, there's literally nothing about her id change so there's no way I could find someone better



    It's only partially my fault because bad circumstance ruined some of the plans I had but I could have been less of a wimp and just got her number when we talked for the first time but I didn't because I was to shy



    She's so unique and special even if there were maybe 1 or 2 girls on the entire planet who could possibly compare to her I won't ever meet them. I guarantee I won't meet anyone else I like as much as her



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    How can I not hate myself? I ruined my own happiness. I just wish I could be with her for even 1 day even just 1 intimate miment ,1 single kiss or hand hold. No one can replace her in my heart, if I go another gf I would just be wishing it was her instead

    I already lost
    If you've got this mindset, you're not ready to be in a relationship with someone new anyway because you're limiting your own choices to be happy. If you're going to spend your time wishing you are with someone else, that's not fair on whoever you're dating. You need to sort your own feelings out before even thinking about it.
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    If you'd already messed up your chances with your one crush who you do truley think the world of and know you won't meet anyone as special a her ever again would you give up on romance and love and happiness?
    Well if i messed it up i would think it wasn't meant to be and there is someone else out there for me. Surely you both would have had a chance to get to know each other if you both were meant to be in the others life.

    All these threads are not healthy btw we know you messed up because of your shyness but you have no option but to move on or try and get to know her which you won't do.
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    have you considered getting a body pillow of her face?
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    (Original post by BristolFresher15)
    You only think that because you're still reeling from whatever happened. Trust me, she isn't that unique. If you already messed it up to the point where its irredeemable, just let it go.
    How can you possibly know she isn't unique if you haven't met her? I've met her and trust me she is very very very unique and special. I've never met someone else like her and I know I never will again.
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    Yes. Hence I already have

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    No, and the people you like changes over time, there are people I used to fancy that I definitely wouldn't fancy now lol
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    (Original post by Forumaddict)
    How can you possibly know she isn't unique if you haven't met her? I've met her and trust me she is very very very unique and special. I've never met someone else like her and I know I never will again.
    Law of large numbers.

    I'm only saying this because its likely that you feel like that largely because you're infatuated with her and reeling from the unfortunate events between you too or whatever it was.
 
 
 
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