Girl I like only seems to message me when it's convenient for her

Did you meet her once in person? How far away are you from one another?

Yes we have met quite a few times but we live nearly 2 hours drive from each other. Just a little side note I messaged her on Saturday saying "Not spoken for a while so I just wanted to pop up and say hi. Hope you're well" she read the message and never replied but last night she put a Facebook status about being bored and wanting someone to drop her an inbox.

That's weird, I only message people when it's completely inconvenient.

Hahaha. I was just thinking this.

Op - everyone does everything at their own convenience. Welcome to the human race.

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Dude, you sound like a nice guy, maybe a bit too nice. Your messages to her are too polite, you need to grab her attention, think outside the box; she ignores you because you aren't a challenge. The trick is to get her attention without making it obvious that's what you're doing. Ignore the ********s on here giving you smart replies, they just enjoy listening to someone else's woes because it provides a brief distraction from their own.

So just before Christmas I met this girl and we hit it off straight away but she was in a relationship at the time, just after Christmas she broke up with the guy and she added me on Facebook and we started talking a lot more and I made it really obvious that I liked her and I got the impression that she liked me back. She would always pop up on my Facebook liking and commenting on my statuses.

Anyway for the last few months she hasn't seemed as eager to talk to me, when I message her first I see that she has read the message but doesn't reply for a few days or never at all. But if she messages me first she always says she really misses me and I get the impression she only messages me when it's a convenient time for her. Also I have not looked at her Facebook profile or interacted with any of her statuses on Facebook for months but when I go on my friends list she is always listed as one of my top two friends, does this mean she is looking at my profile?

My head is a mess what should I do?

I think you have got a point, people are always telling me I'm a nice guy and maybe she is taking advantage of this. How do I grab her attention? But at the same time I don't want to be the one always messaging her.

You're starting from less than zero because she doesn't seem interested, there are some pretty tactical things you could do and they don't involve her- at least not directly. Do you know her girlfriends? Make friends (and I mean friends don't hit on them) with some of them, casually comment on their statuses don't go overboard just enough so she sees. Make all your own statuses really positive, like you're having the time of your life. Be interesting, create a buzz that wasn't there before, again, we're not talk Walter Mitty here, just enough to shake things up. Then, the hardest part of all, don't message her, WAIT. I guarantee if she is genuinely interested and wants to connect she'll come after you. If you're at this point you're doing well so don't screw it up by replying HIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII !!!!😍😍....keep your replies short, not cocky tho, leave some replies longer than others to give the illusion you're busy with other things. Keep that up and it'll become natural after a while. It's not about fakery, it's about holding back and staying cool.

Good luck. And remember, she's just one girl....there's lots of them out there, fill your boots!

So I should not message her now I should wait for her to message me first.