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    So last year I matched with this guy on tinder, we spoke loads and eventually exchanged Facebook/number etc to arrange a date.
    We were really close to meeting up, but couldn't find a date where we could both do for a couple of weeks, but still spoke like phone calls and FaceTime etc loads!
    The chats died down, and I felt like I was making all the conversation so stopped and he didn't make any conversation.
    We didn't speak for a couple of months, but yesterday I texted him congratulating on completing the marathon. I'm still the one making the conversation.
    Does this mean he is no longer interested? Any other tips? Seemed like a really nice guy and was genuine!
    p.s. [before anyone says go out and meet people: uni friends are all female (whole cohort is) and flatmates don't do party scenes, and no way I'd go on my own]
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    He's probably no longer interested and/or has met up with other tinder matches he liked more : P
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    hit rave
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    right, he matched with other tinder people. Who says he wasn't talking to other girls when he was doing stuff with you?
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    If you are the one making all the conversation then I'd probably just leave him be as it doesn't sound like he is interested, no.
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    sorry that you invested so much time in him, but yeah as people are saying if he's not initiating contact he's probably just been keeping you on the back burner as a fall back option. if guys want something they go after it, never chase a guy! You'll find someone who places you as no. 1 soon enough
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    Yes, it is obvious that he is not interested anymore. If a man likes you, he will pursue you no matter what.
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    (Original post by ellej93)
    If a man likes you, he will pursue you no matter what.
    I can think of many circumstances where this wouldn't be true.
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    Time to stop wasting time on him then!
 
 
 
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