Turn on thread page Beta
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Hi guys,
    I have liked this girl since year 8 (I'm now in year 11), and still feel the same. I don't have much confidence though, so what should I do? Do I go for it or what?
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    That entirely depends on your current relations with her. Enlighten us.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    Well we have been basically best friends since the start of year 7 and since year 8 I have liked her. We are still really good friends and talk nearly everyday and tell eachother all important information we can't trust anyone else with. I just don't know what to do...
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    Well we have been basically best friends since the start of year 7 and since year 8 I have liked her. We are still really good friends and talk nearly everyday and tell eachother all important information we can't trust anyone else with. I just don't know what to do...
    Can you quote when you respond? You get a notification and it makes it easier to respond.


    Is she intimate with anybody else that you know of? It sounds honestly that you're in a decent position to act.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    Can you quote when you respond? You get a notification and it makes it easier to respond.


    Is she intimate with anybody else that you know of? It sounds honestly that you're in a decent position to act.
    No she hasn't liked anyone since year 8 after she got out of a pretty short relationship though but I'm not sure if she likes me back?
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    No she hasn't liked anyone since year 8 after she got out of a pretty short relationship though but I'm not sure if she likes me back?
    The fact that she hasn't had a relationship in so long probably means you're well positioned to start making moves.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    The fact that she hasn't had a relationship in so long probably means you're well positioned to start making moves.
    What things do i do to make some moves?
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    What things do i do to make some moves?
    You know, compliments. See what you get back. Start off subtle and move up over the course of a few weeks.

    You know her better than me, you know her boundaries.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    You know, compliments. See what you get back. Start off subtle and move up over the course of a few weeks.

    You know her better than me, you know her boundaries.
    Ok thanks, but what signs should I look out for to see if she likes me back??
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    Ok thanks, but what signs should I look out for to see if she likes me back??
    Complimenting you back, body language. Something like 60-70% of human communication is non-verbal, so pay attention to her cues.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    Complimenting you back, body language. Something like 60-70% of human communication is non-verbal, so pay attention to her cues.
    Thanks a lot!! You helped a lot! 😀
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    I would make a move and tell her if she would like to have coffee over the weekend or go for it tell her how much you like her.

    Good luck! I wish you the very best.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Drax101)
    I would make a move and tell her if she would like to have coffee over the weekend or go for it tell her how much you like her.

    Good luck! I wish you the very best.
    Thanks! I took both of your advice, she agreed to meet at Starbucks for a drink and then i'll slowly merge in the topic and see he reaction.
    Thanks again guys!!
    Offline

    15
    ReputationRep:
    Do you guys talk?
    Are you already friends?

    If so, change things and start hinting that you like her see how she reacts. You liked her for so long just go for it.
    Offline

    12
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    Thanks! I took both of your advice, she agreed to meet at Starbucks for a drink and then i'll slowly merge in the topic and see he reaction.
    Thanks again guys!!
    Congrats man!

    This is a very positive indicator to move things forward. When you meet up tell her how gorgeous she looks and you find her smile so sexy. Be honest.

    Good luck!
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Callum inglut)
    Thanks! I took both of your advice, she agreed to meet at Starbucks for a drink and then i'll slowly merge in the topic and see he reaction.
    Thanks again guys!!
    Let us know how it goes!
    Offline

    7
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    Let us know how it goes!
    You could have potentially set this young man with a future relationship. Well done m8!
    Offline

    2
    ReputationRep:
    Learn to flirt, if she flirts back, back off, if she still shows interest shes serious.

    Works everytime.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by TercioOfParma)
    Let us know how it goes!
    Hey, Sorry it took so long to get back to you but I eventually asked her out just over a week a go, at Prom as we were prom dates as friends so i asked her to be more than friend date, and she said yes!! I just wanted to thank you for all the advice you gave me!Thanks again!
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
Turn on thread page Beta
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: July 6, 2016

2,779

students online now

800,000+

Exam discussions

Find your exam discussion here

Poll
Should predicted grades be removed from the uni application process

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reply
Hide
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.