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    I have an issue with giving my all in relationships and it's a problem because I get overly emotional over stupid things. My sister has advised me on not taking it too serious because I'm not sure if he's the one , and that how 70% of guys cheat. I've been with him for almost 6 months and according to her it seems like I put more effort into it, and I should be lucky that he stays.

    My question is, what would you do at this stage?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I have an issue with giving my all in relationships and it's a problem because I get overly emotional over stupid things. My sister has advised me on not taking it too serious because I'm not sure if he's the one , and that how 70% of guys cheat. I've been with him for almost 6 months and according to her it seems like I put more effort into it, and I should be lucky that he stays.

    My question is, what would you do at this stage?
    Your sister does not sound nice or supportive saying how you should be lucky he is sticking around lol what he should be lucky being with you.
    You need to chill out and improve you insecurities, go to the gym, get a hobby or hang out with your friends your bf is with you for a reason cause he wants to be with you.
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    Your sister does not sound nice or supportive saying how you should be lucky he is sticking around lol what he should be lucky being with you.
    You need to chill out and improve you insecurities, go to the gym, get a hobby or hang out with your friends your bf is with you for a reason cause he wants to be with you.
    Yeah, I think I need to do that, I get worked up easily and tense. I just have a short fuse and it's because i care a lot. That's the main problem.
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    Yeah, I think I need to do that, I get worked up easily and tense. I just have a short fuse and it's because i care a lot. That's the main problem.
    Don't listen to your sister that 70% of men cheat lol not all men are the same. You need to focus on other stuff besides your bf and relax more.
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    (Original post by chikane)
    Don't listen to your sister that 70% of men cheat lol not all men are the same. You need to focus on other stuff besides your bf and relax more.
    yeah, you're right , the hobby I have I do at home not while i'm in uni..
 
 
 
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