Older guys...

Idk if this is weird or what. But I'm just always seem to be into guys older than me. Like none of the guys my age never appealed. Like when it comes to the maturity or the overall vibe you see. And by older I don't mean like 20 year old age gap. More like from 2 years to 8/9 years older than me. I never get attracted to anything below that. Ever. No matter how handsome they are or anything I'm never into them. :/ I'm just a wee bit worried. Like my friends keep joking how I never date people my age and stuff...
Can anyone relate or nay?
I'm 19 and my bf is 25..does that seem okay tho?

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Reply 1

milliethemoo

Original post by Anonymous

I think that's normal, tbh :tongue:

Reply 2

username155270

19- 25 that's cringe not on your part but his. Once you're in your 20s you shouldn't date teenagers. I would think that there's something wrong with him.

Reply 3

M14B

Original post by Anonymous

I think so.
My parents have 12 years difference.
When they met my mum was 20

Reply 4

ripjonsnow

Original post by xobeauty

19- 25 that's cringe not on your part but his. Once you're in your 20s you shouldn't date teenagers. I would think that there's something wrong with him.

Agreed, I dont know you or your relationship, but I think he is looking for young p*ssy.

Reply 5

cosmic angel

I'm not into guys my age either. Nobody in my cohort at university/school appeals. I think it's normal, seems okay to me.

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

I understand you! My boyfriend is also 25 (I'm 18). I feel the same way, as if the guys my age aren't mature enough, or that a lot of them just want sex but I want something more than that, something that's 'real'. I don't want to generalise though, obviously. There are 18/19 year old guys who don't just want sex but there's just something about older guys.

Reply 7

username155270

Original post by cosmic angel

My parents have a 10 year age gap between them. She was thirty when he married her, it doesn't make him a creep. That's kind of extreme.

30 is different

Reply 8

Josb

Original post by xobeauty

19- 25 that's cringe not on your part but his. Once you're in your 20s you shouldn't date teenagers. I would think that there's something wrong with him.

The girl can also make the first move.

Reply 9

username155270

Original post by Josb

The girl can also make the first move.

Like a young girl hitting on an older man?

Reply 10

Josb

Original post by xobeauty

Like a young girl hitting on an older man?

In this situation, OP is 19 and her boyfriend is 25. It doesn't look impossible. We're not speaking of a "young girl" of 15yo hitting on a 40yo guy.

Reply 11

AIDS Skrillex

Original post by xobeauty

19- 25 that's cringe not on your part but his. Once you're in your 20s you shouldn't date teenagers. I would think that there's something wrong with him.

Why not?

Reply 12

Rorschach II

I generally only find guys at least two years older than me or more attractive.

(Though I'm only 17.)

Yep, that's normal.

Reply 13

username155270

Original post by Josb

In this situation, OP is 19 and her boyfriend is 25. It doesn't look impossible. We're not speaking of a "young girl" of 15yo hitting on a 40yo guy.

What if a 25 year old girl was dating a 19 year old boy. Its weird, it's not ok.

Reply 14

ripjonsnow

Original post by xobeauty

What if a 25 year old girl was dating a 19 year old boy. Its weird, it's not ok.

yes it is.

Reply 15

Lord Samosa

It's quite normal. Tbh, I think girls mentally mature quicker than guys, so that probably plays a part. (Just don't be going for older guys when you're under 18)