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    I sometimes get requests from people that I've never met with whom I have a mutual friend.
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    (Original post by monk1324)
    I sometimes get requests from people that I've never met with whom I have a mutual friend.
    I would ignore for the time being. If you meet someone in real life later on, they'll remember you and why you haven't accepted their request.

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    I usually ignore them.
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    They go into Facebook purgatory :yep:
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    I usually ignore them.

    If I've never met them but there's like 80+ mutual friends I might accept it if they look hot for... research purposes.
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    I never accept if I don't know who they are.. I don't want them to see every post I make and every photo I'm tagged in if I don't have a clue who they are!
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    If I used it and we had mutual friends i'd accept and arrange a meeting.
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    If I don't know them at all and especially if we have no friends in common, I delete the request and mark it as spam so they can't add me again.
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    If they are hot (like a 4/10), I get all sweaty and I can't click accept fast enough.
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    (Original post by Spock's Socks)
    If I don't know them at all and especially if we have no friends in common, I delete the request and mark it as spam so they can't add me again.
    Haha, if you have no friends in common I think that's the normal reaction.

    If they went to a similar institution (same university) I would still accept though, depends what they want?

    Why pass up an opportunity to get to know someone who might be interesting / valuable?
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    Decline it. I only add people I know personally
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    If you don't know them, don't add them, that's my usual policy with that sort of thing. If they're a friend of one of my friends I might conisder it though. But then I don't add people I know I won't talk to really, saves an awful lot of random stuff appearing on my feed.
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    Accept.
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    Await deletion.

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    I accept almost all friend requests on my public profile. I decline almost all friend requests on my private profile.
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    I tend to delete them. Unless I've had at least some interaction with them on other posts and stuff, in which case if they seemed cool I have no problem with having them on my profile. But mines pretty empty/private anyways.
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    I check them out, and if they sound interesting enough, I'll accept.

    If it just looks like they added me for the sake of having me as a number on their list, then decline.
    Also, if after having accepted they don't interact with me at all for a while, I go back to delete them.

    I've made a good number of genuine friends by just accepting them out of nowhere :cute:
 
 
 
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