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This girl......
ok, I admit I am extemely inept when it comes to r'ships, im the one that spent his first year at uni convinced he was head over heels in love with his best mate just because we have such an awesome connection as friends... Anyway, theres one girl who i met at a social back in october and we don't meet up as such but kinda bump into each other a lot, have a little chat etc etc and I think she's quite flirty towards me, always blows me kisses etc and seems to really respect me, once told me her mum thought i was gods gift to women when she saw my facebook profile pic..
Now for the tricky bit......... She knows exactly about the way i felt [and probably in her mind 'still feel' about Mel, said best friend], i once cried on her shoulder when i thought i was soooo mad about mel. When we see each other her first words are normally 'how's things with mel?' and the last few times i tried to say summat like 'things are great, shes a crackin' friend, my feelings just kinda got messed up, tbh dont rly fancy her as such'. I seem to remember getting a hug and a kiss after the crying episode, and told me 'mel probably likes you a lot, she should, you have a lot going for you'!!
Could this just be a total disaster and not be worth any thought, or any signs that something might be worth persuing?? Soon to break up for summer, which could make things tricky, but shes coming to my little party on monday...... Trouble is so is mel, and shes one of the ones that first told me tht me n mel have 'chemistry'.... which we do, coz we're amazing friends, and mel is a person who really does seek closeness in friendships, hense the fact we are slightly affectionate with each other than most friendships..... Advice??
Now for the tricky bit......... She knows exactly about the way i felt [and probably in her mind 'still feel' about Mel, said best friend], i once cried on her shoulder when i thought i was soooo mad about mel. When we see each other her first words are normally 'how's things with mel?' and the last few times i tried to say summat like 'things are great, shes a crackin' friend, my feelings just kinda got messed up, tbh dont rly fancy her as such'. I seem to remember getting a hug and a kiss after the crying episode, and told me 'mel probably likes you a lot, she should, you have a lot going for you'!!
Could this just be a total disaster and not be worth any thought, or any signs that something might be worth persuing?? Soon to break up for summer, which could make things tricky, but shes coming to my little party on monday...... Trouble is so is mel, and shes one of the ones that first told me tht me n mel have 'chemistry'.... which we do, coz we're amazing friends, and mel is a person who really does seek closeness in friendships, hense the fact we are slightly affectionate with each other than most friendships..... Advice??
Reply 1
OK sorry, point is other girl [not the best friend] may like me, and tbh i wouldn't say no either.... So the question is, is there anything i could/should do about it?
Reply 2
Make it clear to the girl that you don't fancy Mel.
Maybe tell her that you fancy someone else?
Maybe tell her that you fancy someone else?
Reply 3
Anonymous
OK sorry, point is other girl [not the best friend] may like me, and tbh i wouldn't say no either.... So the question is, is there anything i could/should do about it?
Okaaayyyy... Wait... Which one do YOU want?
Reply 4
DaChronik
Okaaayyyy... Wait... Which one do YOU want?
Reply 6
duckiciao
Ah, the good ole problem of being spoilt for choice. Flip a coin. Or go with all of them and dont let on 
Yeh I'd go with that... LOL! Nah it always bites you back...
Erm... Well if you like them both the same amount, find out which one youd be more suited too... Spend more time with her... Alone with her... See how comfortable things are.
And if you like one more than the other... Well go with that one! lol
Reply 7
Honest advice. Forget them both, then go shag 5 other girls....see how you feel after that. I guarantee you'll feel a lot better, regardless of whether anyone disagrees with me.
Reply 8
LMAO @ 'flip a coin'
Reply 9
TopSortedMadForIt
Honest advice. Forget them both, then go shag 5 other girls....see how you feel after that. I guarantee you'll feel a lot better, regardless of whether anyone disagrees with me.
Yeh but he's having problems deciding outta the two... Thats the best advice when someones tryna get over someone... (well actually I suggest 10 girls but you know) but I dont think him ****in ten other girls is gonna help him decide, maybe make him forget about them two... lol
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