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    (Original post by brodingoson)
    Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

    We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

    Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
    when i could be with another girl and being in love...sounds bad but dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
    She's also my best bestfriend...
    Any advice would be appreciated
    Honesty is the best policy.

    Sounds cheesy I know
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    Be honest, leading her on is not cool.
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    (Original post by BristolFresher15)
    Be honest, leading her on is not cool.
    I'm not leading her on at all...but wondering if it takes this much time to become in love...
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    (Original post by brodingoson)
    Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

    We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

    Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
    dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
    She's also my best bestfriend...
    Any advice would be appreciated
    Ask her to get out of your life....
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    (Original post by brodingoson)
    I'm not leading her on at all...but wondering if it takes this much time to become in love...
    It sure sounds like it, though.

    (Original post by brodingoson)
    Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

    We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

    Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
    dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
    She's also my best bestfriend...
    Any advice would be appreciated
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    Whenever I see/hear this title (the statement I mean) I cringe head to toe.
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    (Original post by brodingoson)
    Been with my girlfriend for around 8 months now and its been great, but....she's deeply in love with me but I'm not...It's getting a bit awkward for me now because I can't keep on saying i love her when I don't....I know what it feels like to be 'in' love and this isn't it....it's more of a best friend love....

    We have great fun but she always talks about getting married when we're older, having kids and all that stuff...at first i thought she was just being soppy but she always talks about it...

    Like I love her but i'm not in love and it makes me sad that i'm not
    dunno what to do, and a levels are coming up soon and dont wanna break it off because its close and if im just being silly about it all?
    She's also my best bestfriend...
    Any advice would be appreciated
    Yeah yeah shush. :slap:

    Just tell her what's up. She's probably a kwengers anyway. Probably with you during school and Luke from across the street in the night. :nopity:
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    Whenever I see/hear this title (the statement I mean) I cringe head to toe.
    lol
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    lol
    He changed the title thread and his first post
    wtf?
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    He changed the title thread and his first post
    wtf?
    But quotations shall stay the same.

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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    He changed the title thread and his first post
    wtf?
    What was it?

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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    What was it?

    "I love you but I am not in love"
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    (Original post by ODES_PDES)
    "I love you but I am not in love"
    Oh yeah, that is cringe!

    I thought you were an odd one cringing at "lol" XD
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    (Original post by brodingoson)
    is lol a word
    tis an abbreviation
 
 
 
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