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    Okay, so I have this friend, who is great, for that 15% of the time. Then there's the other 75%. She tends to just be of a, how shall I word this, 'miss I'm better than everyone else and I can do anything but if you even look the wrong way then I'll make you PAAAAY!' and not really care, she even admits she's a ***** and doesn't think anything of it. And then there's the other thing.
    So she's had this boyfriend for ages, and they're always together, I can't even think of a time they've been apart, and I've never really had anything against that, even when people were saying they were annoying, I stuck up for them.
    Then I got a boyfriend a few months ago, and its really been the first time I've truly been happy in a while, and slowly she's just started saying really mean stuff about him about how he doesn't look nice and how he's not a nice person and is just using me for sex. We've never had sex, I told him before we even got together that I don't want sex for at least another year, and he's never asked to have sex. She's also told me that I should break up with him because she finds him annoying. I'm not kidding, but it's not her life! Why can't I just be who I want to be and her get over it. If I ever said anything remotely bad about her boyfriend then I'd never get away with it, nobody would, but she can do whatever she wants and gets away with it.
    If anyone has any advice I'd really appreciate it, because its just before my exams and I really don't want any drama. Thanks
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    Okay, so I have this friend, who is great, for that 15% of the time. Then there's the other 75%. She tends to just be of a, how shall I word this, 'miss I'm better than everyone else and I can do anything but if you even look the wrong way then I'll make you PAAAAY!' and not really care, she even admits she's a ***** and doesn't think anything of it. And then there's the other thing.
    So she's had this boyfriend for ages, and they're always together, I can't even think of a time they've been apart, and I've never really had anything against that, even when people were saying they were annoying, I stuck up for them.
    Then I got a boyfriend a few months ago, and its really been the first time I've truly been happy in a while, and slowly she's just started saying really mean stuff about him about how he doesn't look nice and how he's not a nice person and is just using me for sex. We've never had sex, I told him before we even got together that I don't want sex for at least another year, and he's never asked to have sex. She's also told me that I should break up with him because she finds him annoying. I'm not kidding, but it's not her life! Why can't I just be who I want to be and her get over it. If I ever said anything remotely bad about her boyfriend then I'd never get away with it, nobody would, but she can do whatever she wants and gets away with it.
    If anyone has any advice I'd really appreciate it, because its just before my exams and I really don't want any drama. Thanks
    15% + 75% = 90%!!
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    wow, I was in a really bad mood I guess XD you really wouldn't believe that I'm in top set maths and doing further maths XD
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay, so I have this friend, who is great, for that 15% of the time. Then there's the other 75%. She tends to just be of a, how shall I word this, 'miss I'm better than everyone else and I can do anything but if you even look the wrong way then I'll make you PAAAAY!' and not really care, she even admits she's a ***** and doesn't think anything of it. And then there's the other thing.
    So she's had this boyfriend for ages, and they're always together, I can't even think of a time they've been apart, and I've never really had anything against that, even when people were saying they were annoying, I stuck up for them.
    Then I got a boyfriend a few months ago, and its really been the first time I've truly been happy in a while, and slowly she's just started saying really mean stuff about him about how he doesn't look nice and how he's not a nice person and is just using me for sex. We've never had sex, I told him before we even got together that I don't want sex for at least another year, and he's never asked to have sex. She's also told me that I should break up with him because she finds him annoying. I'm not kidding, but it's not her life! Why can't I just be who I want to be and her get over it. If I ever said anything remotely bad about her boyfriend then I'd never get away with it, nobody would, but she can do whatever she wants and gets away with it.
    If anyone has any advice I'd really appreciate it, because its just before my exams and I really don't want any drama. Thanks
    I think you have to set her straight. As your friend she really shouldn't be talking like this, and i think the way no one ever stops her is a factor in making her feel confident enough to do so. Just tell her you're uncomfortable with her speaking like this and you're happy in the relationship - and all her *****ing wont change that xD
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    (Original post by Aykem)
    I think you have to set her straight. As your friend she really shouldn't be talking like this, and i think the way no one ever stops her is a factor in making her feel confident enough to do so. Just tell her you're uncomfortable with her speaking like this and you're happy in the relationship - and all her *****ing wont change that xD
    Thanks! I really appreciate it
 
 
 
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