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My bf doesnt know i have instagram, i just use it to see what he is like.
Ive noticed that hes always liking a girls pics and he mostly likes almost every girls pics

Should i be worried about this
He doesn't comment on the pictures though and he doesnt have any posts or anything.. he likes pics of girls showing their cleavage and they are half naked....
Please someone advice me! Im desperate to know..
I know i should ask him that but hesays he loves me and all that

He has also recently taken emojis off my name on his contact and saved my number and when i asked him that he said it must've been error and that novody has emojis in their name not even his mum and then he did say sorry to me.

He is talking to me less and tells me that he is busy with driving lessons and college coursework. He doesn't text me like how he used to. Im not sure if i should dump him.when i told him i love him he said he loves me more.
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You should be worried
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Your relationship is doomed already because you're way too clingy/secretive. Either tell him about it to clear the air, or delete the Instagram and trust him.
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(Original post by Makeup2)
My bf doesnt know i have instagram, i just use it to see what he is like.
Ive noticed that hes always liking a girls pics and he mostly likes almost every girls pics

Should i be worried about this
He doesn't comment on the pictures though and he doesnt have any posts or anything.. he likes pics of girls showing their cleavage and they are half naked....
Please someone advice me! Im desperate to know..
I know i should ask him that but hesays he loves me and all that

He has also recently taken emojis off my name on his contact and saved my number and when i asked him that he said it must've been error and that novody has emojis in their name not even his mum and then he did say sorry to me.

He is talking to me less and tells me that he is busy with driving lessons and college coursework. He doesn't text me like how he used to. Im not sure if i should dump him.when i told him i love him he said he loves me more.
I don't understand why some women worry like this. If a man worries, he is insecure; but if a woman worries, she is concerned.

If you are really worried about your bf's motives, then it is best to break up. However, you must be sure that you are breaking up for the right reasons, rather than the doubt in your head. Relationships are based on trust and it seems like the trust in your relationship is dwindling.

The best approach is to have a frank and honest discussion with him about what you have seen and how you feel. The outcome of that discussion will enable you to decide whether you want to remain in the relationship or leave.

Don't assume anything because it would be unfair to him.

Good luck.
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I would ask him why.
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The fact that you have an instagram to specially stalk him says a lot more than him liking some photos.
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I'm not sure if it's just me, but i notice a lot of guys in relationships still
continuing to "like" other girls photos on Instagram that are slightly provocative. Although it's not outright wrong, it's still a little off.

Anyway, he certainly seems to be behaving a bit odd. Direct confrontation is the only option, as otherwise you'll just continue to drive yourself crazy speculating.
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So it means i shouldnt be worried
He keeps liking the same 2 girls pic
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(Original post by Hiyabecca)
I'm not sure if it's just me, but i notice a lot of guys in relationships still
continuing to "like" other girls photos on Instagram that are slightly provocative. Although it's not outright wrong, it's still a little off.

Anyway, he certainly seems to be behaving a bit odd. Direct confrontation is the only option, as otherwise you'll just continue to drive yourself crazy speculating.
I've noticed it too from seeing other threads on here. It makes me wonder whether there is a line with this kind of thing. It's not a form of cheating of course but still..

I guess this has only become a recent issue for most relationships nowadays because of the sudden popularity with social media, but even so!
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Nothing wrong with men appreciating a good pair of breasticles.
Comparable to guys watching porn.

I bet no-one would have an issue with girls giggling over a hottie topless. I'd still continue gagging over Derek and Brock's photos on insta if I were in a relationship.


But srsly, delete the insta omg.
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You got annoyed at him just because he got rid of emojis at the end of your contact name?

I've never understood why some girls get paranoid whenever that happens. God..
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Chill, it's just eye candy
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(Original post by WhimsicalSloth)
I've noticed it too from seeing other threads on here. It makes me wonder whether there is a line with this kind of thing. It's not a form of cheating of course but still..

I guess this has only become a recent issue for most relationships nowadays because of the sudden popularity with social media, but even so!
Yeah precisely. It's not something you'd exactly call your boyfriend out on because that would be over dramatic, and nor is it an indicator of cheating by any means.

But it still doesn't entirely sit right with me and seems a little disrespectful.
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(Original post by Makeup2)
My bf doesnt know i have instagram, i just use it to see what he is like.
Ive noticed that hes always liking a girls pics and he mostly likes almost every girls pics

Should i be worried about this
He doesn't comment on the pictures though and he doesnt have any posts or anything.. he likes pics of girls showing their cleavage and they are half naked....
Please someone advice me! Im desperate to know..
I know i should ask him that but hesays he loves me and all that

He has also recently taken emojis off my name on his contact and saved my number and when i asked him that he said it must've been error and that novody has emojis in their name not even his mum and then he did say sorry to me.

He is talking to me less and tells me that he is busy with driving lessons and college coursework. He doesn't text me like how he used to. Im not sure if i should dump him.when i told him i love him he said he loves me more.
There is clearly a lack of trust in this relationship, if you are that unhappy with him then you need to talk to him.
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Your relationship is doomed already because you're way too clingy/secretive. Either tell him about it to clear the air, or delete the Instagram and trust him.
Don't you think if it was that easy to do she would have done it already? :curious:
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Chill, it's just eye candy
You wouldn't say so if your girlfriend was liking pics of bulges, especially ones bigger than yours.
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My bf doesnt know i have instagram, i just use it to see what he is like.
Ive noticed that hes always liking a girls pics and he mostly likes almost every girls pics

Should i be worried about this
He doesn't comment on the pictures though and he doesnt have any posts or anything.. he likes pics of girls showing their cleavage and they are half naked....
Please someone advice me! Im desperate to know..
I know i should ask him that but hesays he loves me and all that

He has also recently taken emojis off my name on his contact and saved my number and when i asked him that he said it must've been error and that novody has emojis in their name not even his mum and then he did say sorry to me.

He is talking to me less and tells me that he is busy with driving lessons and college coursework. He doesn't text me like how he used to. Im not sure if i should dump him.when i told him i love him he said he loves me more.
As someone who was in an identical situation and I can confirm he is definitely cheating or up to no good, don't roll over and accept being taken for a fool
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Does he know these girls irl, or are they just attractive instagram famous girls? if it's the latter, who cares? He's allowed to find other people attractive other than you, it's normal - How many male celebrities do you find attractive? Or how many men do you see in public that catch your eye, it doesn't mean anything except that you're human.

It's more an issue that you're:
1) stalking him on social media and have made an account specifically to do this.
2) questioning why he's removed emoji's from your name - I didn't realise this was even a real life issue....
3) concerned that he's not talking to you when he has college work or driving lessons - Would you rather he be uneducated and living off the dole just so he can talk to you 24/7?
4) willing to dump him before communicating with him - a basic skill.

Learn to communicate and express your thoughts and feelings. If you struggle with this now, you will struggle in every relationship.
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Its just a picture he's admiring. It might be in a 'good on you' way rather than a fancying/turn on way who knows.
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